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Old 06-04-2008, 09:50 AM
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And I don't have a problem with porn, but when my father is watching... while I'm around. Seriously. -_-

I'm just sitting at my computer, surfing around on Neopets and I turn to the side and I see a boob and some penetration and then he clicks away. O_o The computer is in the dining room and the TV is in the living room and there is no divider.

I would love to tell him to stop and consider my feelings, but that would just be awkward... AND WHY IS HE LOOKING AT PORN IN THE OPEN?!

Help. I'm so sick of him. Just help.
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Old 06-04-2008, 10:42 AM
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Get a laptop, you can get them really cheaply these days, or put the computer somewhere private, then he can do what he wants and not offend your sensibilities....

Problem solved...

Remember, the internet is for porn.
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If I were you I'd just limit the time you're on the computer while he's watching TV. Take a book to your room or go for a walk. Does your mother live with you?
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Old 06-04-2008, 12:41 PM
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And I don't have a problem with porn, but when my father is watching... while I'm around. Seriously. -_-

I'm just sitting at my computer, surfing around on Neopets and I turn to the side and I see a boob and some penetration and then he clicks away. O_o The computer is in the dining room and the TV is in the living room and there is no divider.

I would love to tell him to stop and consider my feelings, but that would just be awkward... AND WHY IS HE LOOKING AT PORN IN THE OPEN?!

Help. I'm so sick of him. Just help.
I'm sorry, but that's one of the creepiest things I've heard in a while...lol. I don't think you should feel awkward, he should. If I were you, I'd bring it up and embarrass the sh*t out of him. That'll get him to stop. lol
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I'm sorry, but that's one of the creepiest things I've heard in a while...lol. I don't think you should feel awkward, he should. If I were you, I'd bring it up and embarrass the sh*t out of him. That'll get him to stop. lol
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. It's one thing if it's your wife/girlfriend or even your son ..... but your daughter ......
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Anon-
I should have posted that I did not want your advice because I don't. I didn't want your advice in the other thread and I don't want it here. This is the nicest way I can tell you this.

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The thing is, he has a TV in his room. Everyone has a TV in their room. I have no idea why he just decided to turn on the TV while I was there. He knew I was only on the computer for a second to check what time my photo shoot was. He could have waited or go to his room. And yes, my mother lives with us. She was at work at the time.

My father isn't a normal father. He had a picture of himself, naked, floating around the house and I told my mother about it and she got on his case for it. Then, he came up to me and told me to look at it because it wasn't "so bad." I wanted to puke. And he has this way of punishing me when I walk in on him. My room is connected to his room and the only way for me to get anywhere in the house is to walk through his room and I walked right on through because I thought it was safe to. He falls out the bed and yells at me for not giving him a bottle... What bottle is he talking about? A bottle to give his friend across the street. Why does your friend need a bottle and why is it my fault that he doesn't have one... He then called me a bunch of names and left the room. We're not even gonna get into how he makes me forge other people's signature on letters.
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Well, he sounds like a loser..

So the next piece of advice I'll give you, Ravs, is to move out. If I remember from the other thread, you're too old to be living with your parents.
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Well, he sounds like a loser..

So the next piece of advice I'll give you, Ravs, is to move out. If I remember from the other thread, you're too old to be living with your parents.
...I'm 17. That's too old?
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