Good points Sourpuss and HD. Those of who just give and give without asking much, pretty much get discounted right down the line.
Good points Sourpuss and HD. Those of who just give and give without asking much, pretty much get discounted right down the line.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
I'm convinced that men don't actually want the down to earth, sensible, laid back, generous....etc girl. At least I've yet to meet a guy that is into those kinds of girls. Some say that they are, but I've RARELY seen any of them actually go for that kind of girl.
Guess that's rather like the idea that nice gues finish last?
Sometimes I think that if I hear, "you're a wonderful woman", "you're so good", "but..." I'll just give up and take betch classes. I've actually been working on it.
I see so many women who complain and demand and critisize, who have a man trying to please them that I'm beginning to think that it is true, men do love betches. Especially it seems if they are denigned sex too.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
I agree. I've always said that 'men say they want a nice girl, but at the end of the day they want someone who is beotch-crazy'. I've said it for years and it's true! I don't get it.
Don't they go on and on about the one that broke their heart... and you think wow... did she have you fooled? Was she nice and then one day just got cold? Nah... she was always like that... pfft. A lot of men are quick to accuse women of being emotional basket cases... but seriously. I can't count how many men I've known that pine and pine for girls that never gave a darn about them. Girls that stepped on them, used them to buy them stuff, cheated on them, talked down to them... but guess what all those women usually have in common? They were super hot.
Too many guys will pick a super hot douchebag of a female over an average but pretty nice girl... then complain about how all girls are mean and horrible. No... the girls you pick are, but you know that when you pick them .. *eyeroll*
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
Women are competitive, just like men. Just as you guys will do dumb like see who can jump off of something or do the most pushups, with women it's much more complicated.
Someone either told them or they absorbed it from the media that things and appearance equal happiness. So thus they get stuck in this stupid cycle of jealousy, especially with their friends. Try finding a woman that can think for herself.
A question begging to be answered. All men scratch their balls all of the time. Its just that in fancy restaurants, with manners and rules on etiquette what they are, it becomes much more obvious. Men scratch their balls because they itch and because of habit. Maybe Thomas has a better answer.![]()
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