Hi, is the question of whether or not self development is possible a little too vague? There are many ways promoted to achieve self development, but most genuine ones appear to require a better control over the mind. Is there any technique to gain more control over the way we think. I think Meditation is something that can increase mind power, which may be proportional to the ability to develop these skills. Any more suggestions on this???

Check out Shad Helmstatter's book, What To Say When You Talk To Yourself

I am a post it sticker Queen.

Not because I am forgetful, rather there is so much happening that I want to be able to "SEE".

I use the same principal for my personal life.

I use "Post it stickers" for "affimations"...

Place them where I CAN NOT HELP but see them over and over, as a result my "Mind" believes it will happen, or I can do...

CW

YES!

I am the poster child of this principle. Even though i was considered good looking my fears of women and people made me an outcast not wanting to get close in fear of loosing them and seeing myself as unattractive.

One day I came to the realization that "You can not lose something that you never had" So in essence me fearing of being rejected before i even made an attempt to approach a stranger was had no real foundation to build that belief off of.

I belong to a community of men that have made it our lives to be the best man we can be. Many men are divorced and come to us in there absolute lowest form but as the grow and develop they are able to become men that they are proud of.

Every journey begins with a single step. Its in knowing that the success to any journey is not the finish line but that actual voyage. Releasing outcome and expectation will yield the results that you deeply crave.

Hope this helps

Live laugh and love

Not sure if links to other WH threads are acceptable by forum rules if not i apologize If it does get removed then just go on my profile and search threads started by me and look for the title

"Thoughts vs Beliefs How to Gain Confidence."