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Hurt and confused and need someone to talk to

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    He turned to the drugs to fill a void in his life. He is now looking to refill that void with something else. He's become very introspective because that is what they want you to do in rehab. They need you to go into your mind to analyse the why and the when of things - he is doing this now. I doubt very much that he is really missing not having had several partners prior to marriage. He's has a void and is looking to fill it. Early on the void was filled with you (a new relationship), then a daughter (a new responsibility) and now. . . what will it take to fill the void?

    This might sound trite but does he have any hobbies? Is there something he could do daily to take his mind off his thoughts so much? Has he friends that he is able to be companions with? Is there family near by? What could you do to help fill the void? Can you be varied in your approach to him so that he feels something new and exciting each and every time you make love? Lastly, can you separate making love with just sex - if that is truly what he is wanting?