Iam 55 and have been married to a good loyal man for 24 years . I knew from the start that he wasn't good at expressing emotions but have lived my marriage with the love of my 4 kids . They are now all grown up and away from home . I run my own business from home and two years ago my husband retired. I knew I would struggle but now I really am and don't know which way to turn. He is ten years older than me and has aged much quicker than I expected. I feel as if iam drowning in this marriage. I don't want to leave it as we are a close family and I could not hurt everyone but is this the end of what I want out of life. Our sex life is non existent as he had problems five years ago and just gave up. I still want a sex life but he won't discuss it or make any effort. I do everything finances , home ect . He just seems to be happy in his own world. My kids see the problems but just except him as he is. What do I do without hurting anyone ? I have tried everything I can think on and nothing changes .