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    Quote Originally Posted by ihatetv View Post
    I wish I was a full D, but I'm stuck with a big A/small B.

    To make matters worse I'm not really slim, sure I'm not fat, but I could lose a few pounds but I'm afraid I'll end up being flat if I do.

    I hate this obsession with big breasts. Every time I turn on the TV I see a huge pair of breasts. Every magazine. And all men seem to ogle are big breasts.

    Of course the ideal is to have big, natural breasts. But what's really sickening is that big, fake breasts are better than small naturals. Just watch TV. Most of the big breasted women, have huge plastic knockers.

    I hate this because it's everywhere and I'm becoming really self critical and depressed. Even though I know I'm not ugly I just feel unattractive because of this. I just can't see myself as attractive because huge breasts are WAY better or so it seems.

    I have a boyfriend and he loves me and he says he loves my breasts, but I can't believe him. Because I know men say that, but behind our backs with their buddies they always talk about big breasts. He said he likes big breasts, but he's pleased with mine and also that he doesn't like them too big (but "too big" to him is probably an F cup and above). He said of course girls on TV have to be hot, more than normal women, because that's what they're paid for just like male actors. But I don't see as much male objectification as women's! Plus I don't like the fake male look either. It's disgusting.

    He says I'm far too critical of myself, but can he blame me? He says oher women are probably not like this, but what does he know, he has no close girl friends and even if he did they probably wouldn't talk about this with him.

    I resent men and the media. I hate my breasts. I hate every ad or porn or whatever that focuses on big breasts. Like those stupid comedies for males (Bachelor's Party 2).

    I would never have plastic surgery as it scares me and I wouldn't like having plastic .

    Why can't small breasts be as hot as big ones? Why do big ones have to be so adored? I hate it, men seem to lose the ability to think when they see huge breasts and we're supposed to accept it and deal with it, even if they're fake breasts, how unfair, I choose to be natural but yet I'm worse than fake women.

    (Sorry if I offended anyone, I'm just feeling like , been feeling like this since I was like 14).
    Whoa there, girly!

    I'm a man and I definitely prefer smaller breasts. Big breasts tend to sag a little and they most definitely will when you get older. Smaller ones are definitely hotter, they are perkier, stand at attention and are really nice to look at. No doubt about it.

    The media/porn does the same thing with penis size. If you are anything short of a foot, they give the message that there is something wrong with you. Then they advertise all types of pills/creams/procedures to make your penis bigger, preying on men's insecurities.

    Guys have it just as bad.....

    It's not the media that is to blame, it's yourself. You choose to accept the message that they are giving. Don't resent men and the media.

    Your boyfriend has done a great job of reassuring you. Why don't you listen?

    Get this outta your head. You mentioned that you are a tad overweight...why don't you focus on fixing that? That is something within your control, and probably something that will lift your spirits.

    If you need any help on a weight loss regime, please feel free to ask.

    Otherwise, best of luck.

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    Sorry hun, in reading her thread replies to starting date, she left Feb...


    So no reply from her.


    But you have advice that I hope others will listen to...

    So, not closing thread as a result

    But, you know it's easier said than done, where issues are concerned, it's hard to fix that.... It's mind ...first is the root of the cause, the reason, what makes us/ people do that, smoke/weight, what ever (not talking actually about me ) saying glad you bought that up , some has some much strength, yet can't do "certain things", rebeliousness?
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kmcghee5 View Post
    Come on ladies!! I am a 30 "something" woman with TINY breasts and I hate it, just like the rest of you!! You know you do!! I have ALWAYS HATED my
    small breasts! I am barely an "A" and am a slim, (120 LBS) 5'7" woman. I wish SOOOOO bad that I was bigger and have no option other than breast implants. I have tried the creams, etc and nothing works! If I had the money right now, I would get breast implants. As for what men think, they (your man) can say that your size doesn't matter, but notice what he "notices".......breasts! If you have none, like me, than his comments are purely pity. Breast size DOES matter as you can see by any TV show, movie or magazine. If your man (like mine) says that he likes your small breasts, it is because he is "getting some" from you and woulndn't DARE say otherwise. All men like big breasts.............no matter what they say..............that's why there are strip clubs and "Hooters"....... It sucks, but it is what it is!! Not trying to be negative.......just real.....

    ~ "Wishing I had money for breat implants".......


    That simply is not true. It's stereotyping. It's like saying "Because Hitler hated the Jews, all Germans hate the Jews!" But if you don't trust men, that's one thing. HOWEVER, most men think strip clubs are tasteless and disgusting. A buddy of mine brought it up the other day and everybody acted natural, but talking with them afterward individually, no one wanted to go except the guy who brought it up. Besides, if you don't trust men (which you apparently don't, no offense, since you don't believe what they're saying) then why do you wish to please them with implants?

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    not all man likes big breast. I do like small breast. I LOVE them. I look for porn where the women have small breast or natural. I just HATE fake boobs. It is rediculous, makes the women loose sensitivity in that area, and it is just FAKE!

    i HAVE ALWAYS hated fake boobs.

    I like them small and natural.

    Husband.

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    I also have small breasts, my boyfriend always compliments them which allows me to forget most negative thoughts about them. However there is still a small part of me that does wish I was at least a full B cup (I am currently a 34A).

    Question to the men who say they like small breasts...what size are you talking? A? Full B?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ihatetv View Post
    I wish I was a full D, but I'm stuck with a big A/small B.

    To make matters worse I'm not really slim, sure I'm not fat, but I could lose a few pounds but I'm afraid I'll end up being flat if I do.

    I hate this obsession with big breasts. Every time I turn on the TV I see a huge pair of breasts. Every magazine. And all men seem to ogle are big breasts.

    Of course the ideal is to have big, natural breasts. But what's really sickening is that big, fake breasts are better than small naturals. Just watch TV. Most of the big breasted women, have huge plastic knockers.

    I hate this because it's everywhere and I'm becoming really self critical and depressed. Even though I know I'm not ugly I just feel unattractive because of this. I just can't see myself as attractive because huge breasts are WAY better or so it seems.

    I have a boyfriend and he loves me and he says he loves my breasts, but I can't believe him. Because I know men say that, but behind our backs with their buddies they always talk about big breasts. He said he likes big breasts, but he's pleased with mine and also that he doesn't like them too big (but "too big" to him is probably an F cup and above). He said of course girls on TV have to be hot, more than normal women, because that's what they're paid for just like male actors. But I don't see as much male objectification as women's! Plus I don't like the fake male look either. It's disgusting.

    He says I'm far too critical of myself, but can he blame me? He says oher women are probably not like this, but what does he know, he has no close girl friends and even if he did they probably wouldn't talk about this with him.

    I resent men and the media. I hate my breasts. I hate every ad or porn or whatever that focuses on big breasts. Like those stupid comedies for males (Bachelor's Party 2).

    I would never have plastic surgery as it scares me and I wouldn't like having plastic .

    Why can't small breasts be as hot as big ones? Why do big ones have to be so adored? I hate it, men seem to lose the ability to think when they see huge breasts and we're supposed to accept it and deal with it, even if they're fake breasts, how unfair, I choose to be natural but yet I'm worse than fake women.

    (Sorry if I offended anyone, I'm just feeling like , been feeling like this since I was like 14).
    i just wana quickly say, u have just explained all my feelings bout breast includin mine. its like i explained myself. im not a big girl, but i have weight i wana lose. i have real small boobs, and there is nothing i can do about it. my bf says he loves them but i just dunt see how he can. epescially as all girls he wud look at on tv etc wud have big boobs. neva hae small ones.
    i hate noin tht no matter wat i do i gona have these, wat i call, 12 year old boobs. cus it really gets 2 me knowning there are 12 year olds out there with bigger boobs than me.
    my lil sister is 15 and already has bigger breasts than i do. i hate her 4 it. i no its not her fault but i do.
    i wish there was a way 2 make my boobs bigger (not massive) a D, with out surgary. my bf wud hate me 2 get surgary but some times i just feel he only says tht cus he wudnt want other guys 2 actually look at me.
    by any chance if u manage (if ur even looking) to find anything to make ur breast bigger with out surgary please please let me no.
    i hope i ent offened u in any way. its just nice in a way 2 no i not the only one goin thought wat i thought was summit on my own.
    xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Husband and Wife View Post
    not all man likes big breast. I do like small breast. I LOVE them. I look for porn where the women have small breast or natural. I just HATE fake boobs. It is rediculous, makes the women loose sensitivity in that area, and it is just FAKE!

    i HAVE ALWAYS hated fake boobs.

    I like them small and natural.

    Husband.
    ur just sayin tht. no guy can like small boobs. why wud u?!

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    i have quite small breasts, a small 32B, i always used to be jealous of my best friend who has absolutely huge boobs, seriously massive and gets loads of male attention for them.. until we went on holiday together once and she had such problems with them, wearing a bikini was painful for her, the straps dug into her kneck/shoulders and she told me that she often gets kneck/back ache from them, they get in the way when playing sport and she wished they were smaller! like mine!..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kakie View Post
    i have quite small breasts, a small 32B, i always used to be jealous of my best friend who has absolutely huge boobs, seriously massive and gets loads of male attention for them.. until we went on holiday together once and she had such problems with them, wearing a bikini was painful for her, the straps dug into her kneck/shoulders and she told me that she often gets kneck/back ache from them, they get in the way when playing sport and she wished they were smaller! like mine!..
    I have massive boobs and never have a problem with bikini's when i am on holiday i love them

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