I HATE my small breasts with a passion!

**1RealTruth** · 10-23-2009 05:25 PM

Originally Posted by ihatetv

It's just not fair. And I'm not hating on everything. I just hate the fact that attractive = big breasts. Sorry, but if you haven't been rejected for a huge breasted girl (who had zero personality), then you don't know how it's like. I've been there. Guys, I appreciate your posts, but you don't know how it feels like to have the breasts constantly on display, and having this feeling of competition when big breasted women are flaunting it. Some even make comments or have looked at me with pity.
Again, sorry if I offended anyone. I've just had enough.

I have to disagree with the last comment. I know rejection too. If you haven't been rejected for a guy with a bigger tool, then you don't know how it is either

). Every girl that's given me a chance has been happy with my skills but the guy with the bigger "Mr Winky" wins the majority of the time.

Any guy that looks at you with pitty because of your breasts needs to have his eyes examined. Don't worry, it just says they are shallow.

The thing I hate the most is when a Beautiful women is crying because of some "Gods Gift To Women" boyfriend dumped them for a piece of walking plastic. There are a lot of us "Not so pretty" guys out there that know how to treat women right. This world is built on shallow people in every race and religion.

**crazycue79** · 11-08-2009 03:31 PM

Originally Posted by ihatetv

I wish I was a full D, but I'm stuck with a big A/small B.

To make matters worse I'm not really slim, sure I'm not fat, but I could lose a few pounds but I'm afraid I'll end up being flat if I do.

I hate this obsession with big breasts. Every time I turn on the TV I see a huge pair of breasts. Every magazine. And all men seem to ogle are big breasts.

Of course the ideal is to have big, natural breasts. But what's really sickening is that big, fake breasts are better than small naturals. Just watch TV. Most of the big breasted women, have huge plastic knockers.

I hate this because it's everywhere and I'm becoming really self critical and depressed. Even though I know I'm not ugly I just feel unattractive because of this. I just can't see myself as attractive because huge breasts are WAY better or so it seems.

I have a boyfriend and he loves me and he says he loves my breasts, but I can't believe him. Because I know men say that, but behind our backs with their buddies they always talk about big breasts. He said he likes big breasts, but he's pleased with mine and also that he doesn't like them too big (but "too big" to him is probably an F cup and above). He said of course girls on TV have to be hot, more than normal women, because that's what they're paid for just like male actors. But I don't see as much male objectification as women's! Plus I don't like the fake male look either. It's disgusting.

He says I'm far too critical of myself, but can he blame me? He says oher women are probably not like this, but what does he know, he has no close girl friends and even if he did they probably wouldn't talk about this with him.

I resent men and the media. I hate my breasts. I hate every ad or porn or whatever that focuses on big breasts. Like those stupid comedies for males (Bachelor's Party 2).

I would never have plastic surgery as it scares me and I wouldn't like having plastic .

Why can't small breasts be as hot as big ones? Why do big ones have to be so adored? I hate it, men seem to lose the ability to think when they see huge breasts and we're supposed to accept it and deal with it, even if they're fake breasts, how unfair, I choose to be natural but yet I'm worse than fake women.

(Sorry if I offended anyone, I'm just feeling like , been feeling like this since I was like 14).

I'm sorry you feel that way... I don't know if it makes you feel any better but I can't stand big breasts. I always say that the smaller they are the better. I know what you mean by men always staring and stuff, at work it always seem to be a subject for all the guys on big breasts and personally, it's rediculous. Anyhow, there are guys out there that do like them small, me included, and am turned off majorly by big ones. you just need to find someone that makes you happy for what you are and who you are.

**Mes T** · 11-08-2009 06:22 PM

This thread is so long, I haven't read all of the replies but wanted to add my thoughts anyway.

I had a huge breast-esteem (is that legal?

) problem in my teen years and most of the way through college. I'm about a 36B, btw, if not a little smaller.

And one day I just started to see the positives of my boobs. They are perfectly shaped, perky, and are very soft and sensual to the touch. Every single guy I've been with has loved them AND guessed that they were bigger than they actually are (guys are pretty bad at guessing breast size anyway). My female friends have seen me naked and expressed their envy, despite having larger breasts themselves.

I can fit into any top, don't have back problems, can choose to not wear a bra... The positives are endless, and I'd encourage you to start thinking the same.

And btw, I'm not thin, either, so my proportions don't fit the modern beauty "standard." Or so you'd think, looking at magazines and whatnot!

But it really isn't true, when it comes to the actual experiences I have with men.

Hope this helps, at least a bit.

**Texinator** · 12-08-2009 12:25 AM

I figure if I get to see them and play with them, what the h*ll do I care what size they are?

Breasts are always delightful, whether they are delicate little buds or overflowing bosoms. What makes them even more delightful is to whom they belong. My favorite breasts were always those of my partners. After all, they weren't just any breasts, but the breasts of the person I loved.

So breast size doesn't matter at all. If anything, it's more the 'breast ownership' that counts.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 12-08-2009 04:02 AM

Lol, you romantic you Tex, well said.

Mes, I am 34 C, I believe the 30's is your back and I have a back problem, so often I don't wear bras

I love a woman's body, I think we are stunning !!!!!

Sorry.. I also however, love a man's body, I don't expect 6 packs, but i have to be honest, have pride.

I used to think, haha, seriously a woman's body is so sexy and a man's is ugly except we don't even think that when doing the deed.

I have seen/learn't as I became older, that I actually think men are as beautiful?

I'm purely talking Art, not, sexuality... (pretend smiley we are only allowed 4)...

But, I think that you can get yourself to a point in life where everything is beautiful in it's own way... Remember that song us oldies? lol.

I think this is true, and I love whom I am seriously, sometimes lose a little my way, but like that too, why not, but in general, this is how I think......
OP think of your body as art, is the point I am making.

Men, love the look of if I can say, nipples, getting errect, no one has stated this but this is the sexual excitement is it not? Your body reacting?

It's sexy, potent, says arrousement, says, sexy... Remember that.. It's the same rule, it's not the size, but the way you use it!!!!!!!

Use it, feel it.... and watch.

CW

CW

**WildChild** · 12-09-2009 09:00 AM

I just read that a 10 yr stude published in the Canadian Medical Association Journal, found that women who had breasts D or larger by age 20 were 1.5 times more likely to develop type 2 diabetes than those with an A cup. The stude was adjusted for wieght and other factors. Speculation is tha the fatty tissue created more insulation resistance. SO those of us who are blessed with smaller breasts may have one less health worry.
The study recommended watching diet and getting plenty of exersize - a good idea for all of us!

**rawrz** · 12-22-2009 02:35 PM

hey atleast you're a small B, it means you got something up there. I'm entirely flat. I feel just like you, guys would always comment on my best friend's big breasts then look at mine and look with pity too... my boyfriend says he's ok with my breasts [note the ok] but that he honestly prefers big breasts, the comment made my self-esteen plummet...

i'm getting better though, and i thank all the posts to your threads here, they helped me.

**Texinator** · 12-23-2009 09:17 PM

I'm around 6'8". About 203 cm for my metric buds.

Many people think that bigger is better when it comes to men and height. I get lots of compliments in general and even comments about how wonderful it must be to be so tall. When it comes to women, some think it's a big bonus and some will even date only men that are tall.

But does it make me a better person than if I were, say, 5'8"? Or even 5'0"? Does my height somehow change my worth? No, my personality would be the same.

It does have its perks but there are also drawbacks. It's not always easy finding clothes, especially because at over 240 lbs (108 kg) I'm not thin either. Certainly not fat, but also not skinny. But most of the 'tall' clothes are for very thin folks and the 'big' clothes are for shorter people.

Sometimes its not easy getting into a car or even sitting behind the wheel, depending on the model. A buddy of mine had a Porsche Boxter and wanted to let me have a drive, but I had to give up after I couldn't get the wheel and seat adjusted to where I could fit.

And while it's not the case for all tall people, there can also be health drawbacks. I have a bad back for instance and I have to be careful with how I move or what I lift. Even with exercises, flexibility is another issue. Just to name a few things.

So why am I talking about my height in a thread about breasts? Because there are so many similarities.

Many people think that bigger breasts must be better. But does size really matter? Like with height, breast size has absolutely nothing to do with your value as a person. There is no correlation between size and personality.

And like with height, bigger breasts can actually cause some issues. Trying to play sports can be difficult when your boobs are trying to smack you in the face, and I'd imagine trying to strap them down with a sports bra or even tape isn't the most comfortable thing.

With larger sizes clothes can start being an issue. You don't have to worry much with smaller cup sizes, but with bigger ones you might end up having too much boob for the clothes you're wanting to wear.

And of course the biggest complaint is the back pain that comes from larger breasts, and this is a popular reason for women getting breast reduction.

As for how they look.. Well, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and everyone has the right to prefer one size over another. But when that preferences causes someone to ridicule women or to refuse to date them because their breasts don't match the preference, it's just stupid. Just like with height.

**dara1964** · 12-29-2009 01:17 PM

Originally Posted by rawrz

hey atleast you're a small B, it means you got something up there. I'm entirely flat. I feel just like you, guys would always comment on my best friend's big breasts then look at mine and look with pity too... my boyfriend says he's ok with my breasts [note the ok] but that he honestly prefers big breasts, the comment made my self-esteen plummet...

i'm getting better though, and i thank all the posts to your threads here, they helped me.

I feel ya I'm 45 and 5 2" 112 lbs and barley an a cup my husband says the same "Oh I like them just fine" But the other day I went in his office (had'nt been there in over a year) and what is the first thing I see on his desk but a huge Hooters girl mouse pad with raised 3d boobs.No picture of wife and kids or anything just his boobs.He is a supervisor over quite a few people and I find it disrepctful of other women that may have to come talk to him and disrespectful to me.I don't buy any of that line of "Oh more than a mouthful is a waste"

**skirt99** · 12-31-2009 08:41 PM

Big D or small A, our nips are the key to great sex. Go over to the SEX boards and read the posts about boob sucking.

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