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    Are you angry because your boobs aren't as big as you'd like or are you angry that there is a perception out there that you have to have big boobs to be attractive?

    I'm going to be frank and say that I'm willing to bet that men are far more turned off by your attitude, lack of self esteem and your anger than they are about your breast size. People (men and women) are attracted to self confidence. It's about how you carry yourself and the kind of person you are in the end.
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    CW, Sourpuss, those are very good comments, its like the Librarian I spoke of the other day. How she was very sexy, she had small breast, but I caught the confidence and how she carried herself, as a matter of fact I didn't even think of her breast when I tho't she was sexy! Straight Up!

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    I think your major issue here is lack of confidence, not lack of bust size. There is no such thing as an "ugly" set of breasts. I think its importnat for you to not compare yourself to what you see in the media (since, as you said, most of those women have had work done).

    I totally understand body issues, as i have had many of my own through the years, but just try standing in front of a mirror and really looking at yourself. Women's bodies are so gorgeous, try to enjoy yours. If your boyfriend says he likes them, take his word for it...trust me, large or small, men are not picky about breasts (they do have a ridiculous fascination with them, regardless of size lol). Don't judge yourself so much, try to be positive.

    Another option for you is once you gain a little self confidence in your body is to maybe try doing work outs that will increase bust size (i know them make produces for that, but doing modified push ups gains the smae results) Also, you may want to try going to a bra fitter to help you find a perfect bra for you to enhance what you already have.

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    i am the same size as you and my bf says he loves my breasts. i didn't believe him at first but i deffinately do now i know he loves the way i look it makes me feel good. every once in a while i will "accidentally" flash him while he's cooking dinner or when i'm changing to go somewhere...he goes absolutely CRaZY! and i just look at Kate Hudson. she has no breasts at all. so she just doesn't wear a bra and i think she is sexy as . i wanna be like her and i know that eventhough she has no boobs, she knows she's hott!!

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    how can you HATE a part of your body, pfffft that will nurture and feed your children, breasts are beautiful not just for what they look like, but what they can do. i think you need an attitude job, much more than a boob job!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ihatetv View Post
    So basically, I have to just shut up and accept my breasts? That I have no actual arguments to my pain? (Because yes, it hurts not to see my body type regarded as attractive, like having big breasts is. I have wide hips and it seems to count for nothing, as I often see women with small hips but huge breasts regarded as sexy, yet some like me are not).

    I have never said women are angels and men are pigs, there are undoubtedly some stereotypes that are quite true about women which are well, a shame (like the gold digger types).

    Of course everyone is entitled to their preferences, but I just feel that women have more pressure regarding looks, just like men suffer from more pressure regarding income (which I don't get. I've never been a spender, so I don't need a wealthy man).

    Anyway, I'll shut up now. I'm tired or arguing.
    I don't think there is anything wrong with being worried about Body Image. I talked to my Doctor about this in regards to cosmetic surgery and she said in short. Do this for yourself. Not because of what anyone else thinks about it. If you do THAT you will be more likely to be happy about it. If you want bigger boobs? Why not? Frankly I would be happy with less saggy! ;-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by ihatetv View Post
    So basically, I have to just shut up and accept my breasts? That I have no actual arguments to my pain? (Because yes, it hurts not to see my body type regarded as attractive, like having big breasts is...

    Anyway, I'll shut up now. I'm tired or arguing.

    oh i'm so sorry, i didnt mean to offend you or insinuate you should shut up.

    I have issues about not seeing my body type or features generally regarded as attractive. at least when comparing it to what you see on TV and magazines.

    But i also know that some people do find me attractive in a number of ways. yeah, i'll never be rail thin ever again, but for those people it just doesnt matter.

    so yes, a lot of us understand the pain you have and share some of it, albeit about different physical features. but i also know what few features about me that people do like, and am thankful for those.

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    I too share N01 thot's, it certainly was not intended to be that way and I also feel Phoebee has some good points...........

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    *sigh* after 4 kids, and nursing them all...I kept my figure, however the boobs left me...I absolutly hate my breast as well...Hubby on the other hand loves them to death...I won't step foot outside my house with out a bra(and mind you the bras stand up on their own, lol)...

    So yeah I understand the yucky-feeling when it comes to breasts...

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    off topic a bit but my boobs are fine, but i have short stumpy legs especially for my height. my daughter has long long gangly legs i must admit i do feel a bit jealous. and those gorgeous models pffffft! i guess we all have a part we would happily swap. hopefully people will look at my boobs not my legs! who was it who said there are no ugly women only stupid ones? maybe you need to draw attention away from your "girls" i bet you have some gorgeous features, a pretty face, nice hair?

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