Thread: I HATE my small breasts with a passion!

Originally Posted by happy ending

who was it who said there are no ugly women only stupid ones? maybe you need to draw attention away from your "girls" i bet you have some gorgeous features, a pretty face, nice hair?

Yes I do. actually I am 5'9 at about 135 lbs...I have a figure 8 even after 4 kids. SO yes I think of myself as beautiful, but that still does nothing for how I feel about my boobs..If I am stupid for being insecure about them so be it! But I bet whoever said that has some insecurities of their own.

i think its a womans thing married15, even a bald ugly man will look in the mirror and think i look just like bruce willis, but even the beautiful women i know will tell you all about their cellulite, dark circles or whatever. by the way i am curious about your name, were you married at 15, married 15 times or married 15 years? if this is too nosy just ignore!

Read above thread with interest. I have AA Breasts, and a slightly sunken sternum which makes things look worse. However I am slim, with long legs and a pretty face etc, all of which has got me by and generally I did not have any problems, however, two key guys in my life, both rejected me because of breast issues. And so it's not about denying that guys can be affected by the size of breasts, more accepting that SOME will let it sway your view of yourself.

My Doctor put it this way, "you might have a preference for something, but that doesn't mean you will reject a person if they do not have that". And it was true, i thought, Yes I do like tall men for example, but have fallen in love with short guys just as hopelessly when the chemistry was right.

My ex husband, actually said to me he wanted to feel the 'weight of DD breasts' again, as a reason for leaving. It has taken me years to get over this. And shaken my confidence deeply, however I think it is true. I honestly can think of guys I know, who adore me, regardless of how I look.


What I have learnt is that yes, there are guys that will reject you. But there are also guys who will adore YOU, and make you feel SEXY no matter what you are wearing or doing or saying. It was only after meeting guys like that, and not necessarily ones I was with (I have had few partners), but they made it clear they adored me and that was enough for self esteem to start to heal.

It was harder, that the two who were focused on curvaceous were 'spiritual' men as well. As I hit my 40s, the boobs have definitely asked to be let off the 'looking sexy' effort. And I can't kid myself that skinny up top is sexy, but it's also about accepting that you are what you are and have what you have been given and it could always be worse!

My daughter has a gorgeous figure and I do at times get a bit jealous, sometimes you completely missed out on that experience of growing out of bras, I don't think I ever grew into one!! It's so easy when you have a balanced figure, but that's a gift she has been given and we must always celebrate others gifts and remind ourselves of our own.

The only thing now that really makes me mad, is how difficult it is to buy bras for small boobs! I get mine sent over from the UK. If we could buy sexy underwear, it might help!!

Anyway, be realistic. Some guys will find you sexy regardless, trust in them and avoid the others!

Not looking forward to the geriatric years though when the boobs will totally disappear, but then even big boobs by then have disappeared, just in the other direction, hanging around the hips.

You've gotta laugh.

Have fun and shoulders back, chin up... always makes a difference... And of course, good fitting tops, don't wear tents to hide away. Look at Kate Hudson's style as an example.