Thread: Breasts.....Sigh.

Originally Posted by newhere808

Hahaha, well that is certainly a good way to look at things

Well can't always be negative about the situation right?

Originally Posted by Brighteyes

^^ I am so pleased to see that you have now become much more happy with your breast size and realise that big is not always better/beautiful or more desired by the guys.

When I was only 14yrs old I had a 34D bust and absolutely hated them, they got in the way, they drew the wrong type of attention and I used to be called some pretty horrible names, and I spent a lot of my time just crying and wishing I could be like the other girls.

I am now 19yrs old and have now been cursed in having a 32E bust (I hope and pray that I have completely finished devoloping) and like Kallygirlie I suffer with back pain and look on with envy at the smaller busted girls who can simply choose whether to wear a bra or not.

How nice it would be in the summer time to be able to go bra less wearing a nice skimpy top, or even wearing a pretty bikini........sadly not for me.

And then of course there is the big problem in finding nice pretty clothes, tops especially, that fit and not just hang down over my breasts like curtains.

Fortunately nowadays bra manufacturers do cater for the larger breasted woman so I am able to buy quite nice, pretty supportive bras.

I am also very lucky in having a wonderful loving and understanding boyfriend who simply loves me for who I am and not for what I have....am not too sure whether he really truly likes my breasts or not, he's just too kind and sweet I think to say anything in case it should upset me.

I fully believe that a C cup is a lovely ideal size to be......oh how I wish.

Wow,its amazing how many girls wish they had what another has because they think it would be so much better...when really,its not in some occasions like you mentioned.The clothing,back problems,not being able to wear a bikini,and the name calling.

Things like that would annoy me,so I don't blame you one bit. I do think however that you are luck you have a loving boyfriend who understands that looks don't mean everything.Especially when it comes to breasts.

This site,and the people here,have made me so much more confident since I joined.I mean I was confident at first,but little things like these got in the way.But with all these stories and advice people have shared with me,I realize that I should be happy with what I have.

Originally Posted by Airmans Sweetie

ugh i hate it esp wen friends joke about me having the chest of a 5 year old boy, i mean i know they r jokes but still

I couldn't agree more! My sister,cousins,even my sisters bf have made jokes about my breasts at some point.and they may just be playing,but it still bothers me.

^^ I can't say that I know what you are going through, because as you will have read my problems are the other way around so to speak.

But I do know that jokes and name calling no matter how harmless they may sound, can be extremely hurtful to the person concerned.

Gigi, let's say for a moment you could have D cups or even larger without any back pain.. how would your life improve?

Originally Posted by Tex

Gigi, let's say for a moment you could have D cups or even larger without any back pain.. how would your life improve?

To be completely honest...My life wouldn't improve.It took me a while to realize that.But it might make me feel a bit more sexy,but I realized I'm sexy with the size I have.Aside from guys who looks for boobs and not brains,Having A D cup+ Wouldn't benefit me. And if people tease me of my size,they can go suck one cause people such as my sister,probably tease me because they wish they had the size of breasts that I do,because of all the back problems and goggly eyes they get when walking into a store.And if guys don't like it,I don't want them in my life anyways.

I think I have struck brain today!

Bingo!