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    I know a lot of girls who would love to be half as pretty as you are.
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    And really... Who doesn't want to change something about themselves? I could rattle off a dozen things I wish were different, but I don't let myself dwell on it. You got to be happy in your own skin and be positive and love yourself!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sallyskellington View Post
    cant you see the bags around my eyes?? The uneven skin tone? My flatness?? My hais is a mess... The scar on my neck. Idk I like bleck
    Who doesnt have these things? Things could be way worse...you could be short of a limb, be blind or deaf, have a serious mark or scar on your face, or burns all over your body...You've been given such clean, unmarked beauty...Except one scar...My left leg has a giant scar running down the side...Its big and black and ugly...yet I still walk around at work in skirts...If your hair is a mess, brush it...If there are bags around your eyes, get more sleep or give them some therapy, like tea bags...And I have to put on two or three kinds of foundation, depending on my skin that day, because its so incredibly uneven, and most everyone else I know has the same problem...Not to mention, in case the entire forum doesnt know already, I have a weight problem and need to lose a serious amount...But I gotta admit, even with all the extra weight and all my other flaws, I still look pretty darn good...

    Does someone tell you these things on a daily basis? Points out your flaws or something? I think this is what brought me into a state where I barely had any self respect left and couldnt stand be around other people b/c I was so ashamed of the way I look...If someone ELSE is putting these ideas into your head...
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    Oh sweetums.don't hate yourself.why is that u hate your face? And your breasts. Ya know I'm not the skinniest person in the world by far,but I realized recently,that if you find a fashion that fits you,it changes your whole look.personally I love color.I don't wear girly clothing.I wear cute jeans,and like fox,skull and morbid shirts.they aren't baggy but they look very cute on me.I'm sure ur a beautiful girl though.no one is perfect.I didn't like my hair,so I changed the color and cut it shorter.I now realize that my original color of hair,made me look more like me.there's no need to change yourself.unless you want to.never change yourself for someone else but you.

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    Lana bear, I've been in therapy since I was like ten so yeah.. Idk I look in the mirror I think I see myself pretty clear
    Dead animals don't equal fashion it equals cruelty

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    Sourpuss

    then they're crazy.
    Dead animals don't equal fashion it equals cruelty

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    Quote Originally Posted by sallyskellington View Post
    Sourpuss

    then they're crazy.
    Nah, not at all.

    I don't want to sound harsh, but I feel like I need to be honest here. There is nothing wrong with you other than your attitude. You need to see a professional that can help you get through this and learn how to love and appreciate yourself. There are 7 billion people on the planet, the majority of which are far less fortunate than any of us here. For a beautiful girl like you to not be happy with that just isn't right. I hope you can work through this because until you love yourself, it's impossible to love anyone else or expect anyone to love you as well.
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    Do you have pets?

    It's all emotional. Sure your parents gave you money when ever you wanted, home schooled you for two years because you would skip classes, drink etc. They aren't that type of family? No, they revolved around "money will fix everything". It doesn't.

    So, you didn't have love, compliments, and so you didn't feel pretty and beautiful.

    You need hugs so here's one from me.

    If you don't have a pet go and get one. See how happy they are to see you every single waking moment and you with them and how they love you un-conditionally and you them. Then get your butt back here in 6 months time and say OMG.. wicked.

    It's emotional.

    You can't see the writing from the ink because you were given money to solve your problems instead of love.

    And, if you have a pet? Then start learning to love it more and write a post it sticker on your mirror that says " love is un-conditional", "i am actually beautiful". And, try Maroon or deep purple/black for your hair instead of blue and we've been down all the paths of boobs verses your better of trust me, etc, etc.

    Also remember, guys are fake to start with it's all booty calls not relationships so their words don't count..

    Good to see you again... And Sourpuss's advise and Wilds and others well you know it's true.

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    i know i've said this b4 in one of your threads, from your pictures i see lots to like..
    a smart man learns from his mistakes..a wise man learns from the mistakes of others..

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