I have naturally thin hair. I was born like this, it's genetic. As a kid I must have had a bit more hair, but according to my mom, I always had low density, fine hair. I just can't remember well, because she had me wear my hair short (I hated it at the time, but now I get it was more practical for her - since my hair is so fine, it tangles with just a light breeze!). But now that I'm 22 and with long hair (reaching waist level... mostly because I haven't been bothered to get a hair cut), I notice just how thin my hair is. It's thin mostly at the top of my head, so extensions are not an option. I've been told this is normal, but I feel self conscious because the ideal seems to be to have thick, dense hair - which is the opposite of what I have! Also,when I try to Google info and whatnot, all I get are "thinning hair solutions" or different sorts of treatments for hair loss which is not something I'm interested in, since I'm NOT losing hair... I just don't have much hair in my scalp. Never have. And thin hair runs in my family.
Yet people and stuff on the Internet make me feel like a freak (sometimes random people or friends comment on how thin my hair is, especially if I do a ponytail or braid). Ugh, that's part of the reason why I haven't gotten a haircut in almost 2 years - hairdressers love to point out how little hair I have! My hair is healthy, shiny and very soft to touch. And even though I haven't got a haircut (I also have to admit it grows surprisingly fast!), some people compliment me on length/shine/softness and they don't even realize how damaged my ends are until I point them out. And even then, they say they don't look bad. So despite having very thin and fine hair, I guess it's good quality.
But still, I feel self conscious. I constantly check out other women's (and even men's! - my ex had such great hair!) hair and compare - most have a lot of thick, coarse hair! And I feel like my hair is ugly despite what I already said about its shine, texture and even color. I feel frustrated because I can't do much with it. Like I said, pony tails and braids are so thin, and some up dos leave me showing a lot of scalp. I don't wanna wear it short because I personally don't like short haircuts (plus I have a big head/round face).
So is thin hair always bad? Is it a flaw? And undesirable quality? Do people notice a lot? I'm just so self conscious that even though it has nice color and it's shiny, I dont think that's enough to make up for the lack of thickness!




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What we don't like about ourselves, other people don't notice, don't care, nothing. I roll my eyes when girls go to such great lengths to apply cover-up for that zit on their face... when really, no one else is going to notice anyway. 



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