With a teenage daughter, I dress a lot more conservatively than I used to much to my husbands displeasure. I’m trying to still remain sexy in the bedroom and would appreciate any ideas on things to wear.
With a teenage daughter, I dress a lot more conservatively than I used to much to my husbands displeasure. I’m trying to still remain sexy in the bedroom and would appreciate any ideas on things to wear.
The most impotent thing is to set a good example for your teenage daughter. You can always put on your sexy dress after you lock the door and remove it before you unlock it.
Zen is more of an attitude than a belief.
You can cover up/look tasteful for your daughters sake and still appear sexy and exciting to your partner at the same time, you just need to consider different styles and textures of nightware that you both like.
For example, I've always had a thing for silk in the bedroom, I find it very sexy and alluring as it feels good against your skin. Sooo you could invest in a silk night gown, something thats not drastically low cut, but still gives a peek of clevage, and goes down to nearly knee level. The right shape and colour, plus a little naughty twinkle in your eye might make your partners day while still look clean and respectful to your daughter if you pass her on the landing when dashing to the loo!
Just play it up a bit and see what works and what doesn't, also remember, you can always where a covered up gown with something naughty and exciting underneath![]()
Invest it a floor length outer robe, and shorter wrap underneath.
I was thinking about a garter belt and stockings as I have never worn one. Do they sell them at Victoria's Secret?
I guess they do. VS has so many bedroom dresses to choose from (droll...) and most of them are very very sexy![]()
I don't think you have to dress like a school marm because you have a teenage daughter, you can still be fashionable and attractive and wear things that fit your frame without them being in any way trampish or a bad example for your daughter. Just sayin'.
Variety is the key when it comes to bedroom dress. If you did lingerie every night, it would have little appeal after while, same if you were naked every nightThe key is switching it up, keeping it sexy, here are a few ideas of things to surprise him with occasionally:
Vixenish Lingerie: Black, Thigh Highs, Garters, Fishnets, bright red lipstick, some buckles in your corset, leather etc, high heels
Sweet Lingerie: White/Baby Pink, silky, lacy, ruffles, Garters or without, light pink lipstick
Sleepover Pj's: Wear one of his button up dress shirts to bed with nothing underneath (think risky business'esq)
Tom Boy sexy: Wear a tight white tshirt, no bra, boy short panties, over the knee tube socks
Nude Suprise: Let him curl up to you one night to be surprised to find you have nothing on at all
Costume Party: This is limitless, sexy nurse to secratery > whether you get into role play character or not, men always have fun with costumes!
Swimsuit Model: Pick out a few bikini's... and 'try them on' for him , a little fashion show fun before bed
Theres so many options, the key is keeping it new. Doesn't mean you have to do something every night but keeping him guessing will benefit you well![]()
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
I think you can wear something that is classy, but not at all 'sexy'. I have a mum that wears a nightie that has her big boobs coming out of them, sometimes it slips off her boobs...:|
(Sometimes Mum walks around naked around the house with my Dad around and they hug or be a bit rude. It's all very humilating :/)
As long as you are actually wearing clothes around your daughter (lol) and nothing showing too much boob, leg or garters or anything like that, I think it's OK. I think it's better you wear things that cover yourself around your daughter out of respect, if I had a boyfriend living with me, I wouldn't run around in a skimpy nightie around my parents, I'd save it when we are together alone. I think clothes like that is only intended for the bedroom, not to wear around the house, unless you live alone or have no kids.
Thanks Hopeless for all those great suggestions especially things like wearing his shirts etc. that don't cost a lot of money. VS stuff is very sexy but very expensive. (did buy a garter belt!!!) Also, I'm in total agreement with you Crystal. Would never wear "trampish" clothing or bedroom attire in front of my daughter.
tariq456
A bit difficult to get what you are saying, I'd hassed at a guess you are saying doing "wrong" not right.
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So therefore, nothing there is going to effect her daughter.Also, I'm in total agreement with you Crystal. Would never wear "trampish" clothing or bedroom attire in front of my daughter.
I like the idea of long shirts of my mans ...
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