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    Junior Member Bernard is on a distinguished road
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    I am a born pessimist. Can I do something to change my negative thoughts into positive ones? I try very hard not to engage in negative feelings. However hard I may try, I end up with the most antagonistic mental state. This has harmed me in many ways. I really wish I could think better!
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    I love your heading Bernard and that you wrote what you did...

    With the World the way it is, with economy, finances, broken relationships, reports from the Media all over the World of events of sadness ,no wonder, we live in a negative state.

    But, if you look very carefully at every negative thing that is happening to yourself, there is a positive.

    ie) Applied for a renewal of a lease and offered to pay more but got rejected.

    (There is something cheaper out there that will save you money that will come about if you remain positive)

    My girlfriend left me..

    ( If you look at all the times she treated you like rubbish or neglected your feelings, wasn't there for you, didn't make the effort, or lied, you deserve better and she is out there for you)

    I lost my job..

    (By realising that there is a happier job out there for you as that one sucked anyway, you will find it)

    I know that this all sounds wrong to you but it's not.

    The only way to be positive is to think it.

    The best way to think it is to look at what happened and see what you will or did gain from it, did you learn something as well for the next part of your journey?

    I have so many negatives going on it's not funny, but I also have so many reasons to turn them all into positives and one by one, they are...

    We need to look deep into ourselves and "BELIEVE"..

    Thank you for opening up something that hopefully the "positive" people can add to for all that are feeling negative, as aposed to more negativity in this thread.

    I am sure there are a few out there that can forget their negatives for a sec and actually say what transformed from it and turned into a positive as a result.

    I will rattle off a few after, myself.

    Welcome to the Forum.

    CW
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!
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    Default Re:Make happiness a habit

    hot stone and intuitive (Ancient Hawaii) massages for relaxation and getting a hold on the negativity in your life.
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