very painful sex

francesberry · 08-20-2009, 10:24 AM

hi everyone im new to this so its a bit difficult for me to say. im 21 and im in a relationship with the most understanding and caring boyfriend ever. the problem is that for the last 2 years i hav'nt really been able to have full proper sex. i keep going to the doctors and then visited the gyno there awhile back but they dont seem to be helpful. the problem is its painful for me to have sex it just feels so raw and sore even when im fully turned on and ready. its really as my bf tries to enter me. we have tried everything and apart from the constant pain that i cant bare i feel the need to pee really bad and this makes me stop also cause i cant continue. i dont no what is wrong with me all i want to do is have sex and its just not fair.. my boyfriend is always very supportive and loves me very much. but i cant ask him to keep been like this because he has needs too but i dont want our relationship to end because of this so please if you have advice or no what could help please reply. thanks for listening.

*DeadAngel* · 08-29-2009, 09:45 PM

Are you using condoms? Because if you are, then maybe you're allergic to that brand of condoms. Or even the lube, if you use that. If you become allergic to either of them, then that can hurt alot.
I think you really need to go back to the doctor and asked to be referred to a specialist.

Kristen · 09-05-2009, 10:03 PM

Oprah had a whole show dedicated to women with what sound like the same symptoms that you are having. Women that have tried to find help from doctors but the doctors couldn't explain why they had pain during intercourse. My sister had the same problem and here doctor sent here to see a psychiatrist and she felt like she was doing something wrong so after a couple visits there she went to see a women s health specialist who did some blood work and found out she had Hashimoto's disease and with treatment of that the pain with intercourse went away. But from the Oprah show there were many different reasons for the pain. So you have to kind of be your own advocate and keep on the doctors and find one that will help you. I wish the best of luck to you and youtube the Oprah show.

08-20-2009, 10:24 AM	#1
francesberry Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 2	very painful sex hi everyone im new to this so its a bit difficult for me to say. im 21 and im in a relationship with the most understanding and caring boyfriend ever. the problem is that for the last 2 years i hav'nt really been able to have full proper sex. i keep going to the doctors and then visited the gyno there awhile back but they dont seem to be helpful. the problem is its painful for me to have sex it just feels so raw and sore even when im fully turned on and ready. its really as my bf tries to enter me. we have tried everything and apart from the constant pain that i cant bare i feel the need to pee really bad and this makes me stop also cause i cant continue. i dont no what is wrong with me all i want to do is have sex and its just not fair.. my boyfriend is always very supportive and loves me very much. but i cant ask him to keep been like this because he has needs too but i dont want our relationship to end because of this so please if you have advice or no what could help please reply. thanks for listening.

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08-29-2009, 09:45 PM	#2
DeadAngel Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 12	Are you using condoms? Because if you are, then maybe you're allergic to that brand of condoms. Or even the lube, if you use that. If you become allergic to either of them, then that can hurt alot. I think you really need to go back to the doctor and asked to be referred to a specialist.

09-05-2009, 10:03 PM	#3
Kristen Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 2	Oprah had a whole show dedicated to women with what sound like the same symptoms that you are having. Women that have tried to find help from doctors but the doctors couldn't explain why they had pain during intercourse. My sister had the same problem and here doctor sent here to see a psychiatrist and she felt like she was doing something wrong so after a couple visits there she went to see a women s health specialist who did some blood work and found out she had Hashimoto's disease and with treatment of that the pain with intercourse went away. But from the Oprah show there were many different reasons for the pain. So you have to kind of be your own advocate and keep on the doctors and find one that will help you. I wish the best of luck to you and youtube the Oprah show.