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**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-20-2009, 05:37 PM

That's the problem.

Your going through life "on your own" no support what so ever and gifts of "love" given to you via material things from your family not the love you actually wanted/want.

Remember the pets? You way love them, so you are capable of love, just not receiving it back other than from them.

You need to go to a support group where other's are dealing with the exact same thing as you, no support. And, see how your NOT different than alot of people. At present, you feel that it's all on you, it's you and so be it... Not the case.

CW

**Tex** · 10-20-2009, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by sallyskellington

And as for husband he has made it clear my issues are mine not his.

That's cold!

You need to find yourself some people that will love you and support you. CW's idea is a great one, because then you can be with people that know exactly what you're going through.

The problem with material things like cars is that they can give you an initial excitement but they are just objects that don't love you back.

**Tex** · 10-20-2009, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Tex

That's cold!

I know we're not supposed to judge, but what the bleep kind of marriage is it when you're suffering terribly and the person that's supposed to be the love of your life says it's not his problem? Not even friends should be acting like that.

Man, even here, where nobody's met you face to face, everyone's living hundreds or thousands of miles away from you, and some of us have known you only a few weeks, are way more concerned about you and interested in your well-being!

Sorry, that just ticked me off.

**sallyskellington** · 10-21-2009, 06:44 PM

maybe I'll try that. Can't hurt I guess

**sallyskellington** · 10-21-2009, 06:45 PM

we have an odd marriage. We love eachother but don't like eachother very much I guess.

**Tex** · 10-22-2009, 12:07 AM

In a you drive each other wild but you drive each other nuts sort of way?

**sallyskellington** · 10-22-2009, 07:30 AM

no we don't drive eachother wild at all. We kinda just fight and yell or just sit in the same room and exist .

**Tex** · 10-22-2009, 12:32 PM

Then how do you show your love for each other?

**sallyskellington** · 10-22-2009, 03:00 PM

we haven't had the other one killed yet. lol. Idk we don't really. he will bring me home dinner sometimes stuff like that I guess

**Tex** · 11-05-2009, 08:45 AM

How are you doing Sally?

10-20-2009, 05:37 PM	#21
CHANDLERS WISH WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9,968 Blog Entries: 7	That's the problem. Your going through life "on your own" no support what so ever and gifts of "love" given to you via material things from your family not the love you actually wanted/want. Remember the pets? You way love them, so you are capable of love, just not receiving it back other than from them. You need to go to a support group where other's are dealing with the exact same thing as you, no support. And, see how your NOT different than alot of people. At present, you feel that it's all on you, it's you and so be it... Not the case. CW __________________ Do we not realise that in order to find a soul It doesn't happen over night if truth were to be told Like everything in life that's hard to achieve you must believe! Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

10-21-2009, 06:44 PM	#24
sallyskellington Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: long island NY Posts: 229 Blog Entries: 2	maybe I'll try that. Can't hurt I guess __________________

10-21-2009, 06:45 PM	#25
sallyskellington Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: long island NY Posts: 229 Blog Entries: 2	we have an odd marriage. We love eachother but don't like eachother very much I guess. __________________

10-22-2009, 07:30 AM	#27
sallyskellington Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: long island NY Posts: 229 Blog Entries: 2	no we don't drive eachother wild at all. We kinda just fight and yell or just sit in the same room and exist . __________________

10-22-2009, 03:00 PM	#29
sallyskellington Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: long island NY Posts: 229 Blog Entries: 2	we haven't had the other one killed yet. lol. Idk we don't really. he will bring me home dinner sometimes stuff like that I guess __________________

10-22-2009, 12:07 AM	#26
Tex Gold Contributor 500+ Posts $Tex's Avatar$ Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,136	In a you drive each other wild but you drive each other nuts sort of way?

10-22-2009, 12:32 PM	#28
Tex Gold Contributor 500+ Posts $Tex's Avatar$ Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,136	Then how do you show your love for each other?

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