Thread: I have to ask this question...

Something to think about .

I'm not sure When you post your most heartfelt feelings .
Are you on your Meds, have you had a Beer or 2 ?

I do know, as a WH Woman, that we have heard , read ( saw) so many beautiful feelings, sayings, things Most of us women are wanting and wishing to hear ourselves.

But then the next day ,night, week, you are saying that the only Woman you Want and NEED, is your Wife.
And the fact that she isn't into Cuddling or Kissing or Even Sex, that maybe you should go see a hooker or have bar fling or even get a Divorce.

Can you look back on yourself, see when and how and why you posted certain things ?

Were you on Pills for the other Injuries and IBS, were you still in Pain and had a Few beers , sat down on the comp & just typed out your frustrations with your situation then at another time (not on pills or beers )... Given good advice of things you had been thru that helped others with their Experiences ?


If you Can.. You can do something about it.

Even though you seem a very loving and cuddling ,s
Sensitive man, you possibly may be setting yourself up for bigger disappointment, by adding beer to your meds.

Then when your desires ... Are Not Met , you get the Frustration and the thoughts of " Cheating for Sex " or Leaving

Again the next Morning, Just a Smile or " Kiss or Hug " Makes your Day "
You... Seriously seem Glow with Pride and Accomplishment .

For getting the hug or smile or a lil Kiss from the Mrs.

Can you see where I am Going with this ?

Your enhanced feelings and needs for this closeness with the wife, results in enhanced Disappointment and Frustration.

Other times, you seem alert, dedicated to helping others and sometimes with a "flair " of Macho-ism, that can be strong at times.

That is when my Confusion, comes in.. One time Sensitive almost boy like adoring and needing love and comfort, the next time, the " I'm a man and no one messes with me."
The thought had crossed my mind your meds might be " off " or wrong, but I hadn't thought about you possibly mixing with other things, ( Beer ).

Now the Yo Yo effect is making sense and I feel I can read and understand you and your thought process, your concerns a bit better.
Thanks so much for Clarifying a possible reason for my inability to actually be focused on the problem you were attempting to get advise or thoughts on .

Sometimes I was " awwww, how Sweet " Other Times I was " Huh , I thought this or that was solved or Better " .
Then the Double Whammy. " is this the same Mark that just posted ( fill in Blank ) not doing a Spin on it " ?

But is is Not my Judgement to tell you anything, except how I Feel about How You feel..
And I feel you need more than WH to help your Beautiful Family.

Strive