Tabatha
This is good insofar as you have been honest about your intentions by saying that you didn't want to leave your husband. I wonder, therefore, what you mean when you say have told him you want to think about "it." What exactly is "it" you want to think about? Has he made some sort of suggestion? Have you?
If you are talking about maintaining your relationship with him on the basis of "friendship only" then you have to be honest with yourself and make sure that you are not just doing this in order to keep your options open for later when you might decide to reverse your decision to stay with your loving husband. I believe you are on dangerous ground. . . . if you really intend to stay with your husband you must know it would be safer to back off now no matter how nice Mr X is.
Christine
I agree with whoever said if you truly loved him you would have followed him to the moon, I left my job and my family and home all behind to be with my guy (he travels for work and I now travel with him) I love him to death couldn't imagine being without him, I will follow him anywhere as long as he'll have me.
Maybe its the idea that you like more than the guy himself? Just be careful
are you willing to lose your husband for ur past lover? if yes, then do it...if not...don't. It's that simple. I also don't think by just meeting him you are necessarily doing anything wrong. You can just go meet with him to see if there even is still a spark...
If you love the idea of marriage, then you should love the idea of a life-time commitment. You'll risk the very thing you "love" and "believe" in for sex?
Two year old thread and O/P has not been back to respond.
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There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.
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