I really want to know how a total stranger who has NEVER met my husband in person, but only on the computer and talking thru a head set, can decide along with my husband that they love each other and are sending all kinds of romantic emails?????????????????

I caught them last night but knew something was going on as a few months back I heard him say in the headset "honey". Of course he came up with a good excuse and I beleived him.

How did I catch him finally? He by accident left his yahoo mail open. she has even sent him pictures.

They both play world of warcraft and my husband doesn't even allow me in the room till he is off the computer. He did get arrested back in 2001 for many months of hitting and throwing me. I never touched him.


All I have to say to YOU women and men who start a fantasy online relationship: Take THEM please!!!!! He has bad HYGEINE, he has controlled me for 15 years so I no longer believe in me**********he NEVER spent any time with our two kids (always on the computer)*********he has tore down any self respect I ever had*******He is mean********* He only cares about HIM*********
Oh yea one more thing, He may have been romancing you online but he STILL MADE LOVE WITH ME!!!

So sure go ahead and take this wonderful man I HAVE KNOWN FOR 15 years on a very personal level. I told him to leave and go be with you!


STILL WANT HIM????????????????????///

Good for you! That is an incredible story.. there are no words to describe how much of an he is. You are much better off without a jerk who is in "cyber love".

I hope you will get passed this quickly & move on with your life. I don't know you but neither you nor your children deserve this. You sound like a great person with a great head on her shoulders & you deserve so much better. I wish you the very best.

Blessings,

Rose

Let me show you how unfair life is.

Bart found out that his wife was having deep conversations
with a chap 1000 miles away. This was not cyber sex. She
was telling him things she had never told Bart.

He became enraged, violent, and divorced her.

She was safe in her house, just sharing her sorrows,
her life with a guy 1000 Miles away, and he got violent
and divorced her.

Now I can understand people getting into character
in these rpg games...hey, I know a woman who is
in a wheel chair who is a Trinity clone on a game,
and lots of times when I've played games I've played
as a guy or as someone's wife, or whatever, so it's
a game. I mean, it's not real.

But in this case, it has gotten quite real to this
husband.

I just read your thread and I must say that you deserve much better I would say sorry to you but I don't think that this is a time to be sorry, I think this is the time to get dress, get your hair done put on a lil make up and celebrate your freedom. your freedom from all the mess he did to you and the kids and all the pain he caused you. so forget about that loser.

that most be realy hard on you ..
and i think as a women we all Know what the right thing to do is
leason to your hart you only live once so you better do it right
but olny you can deside for you
wishing you all the best and live one day at a time