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Old 04-20-2008, 05:43 AM   #1
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so i take my best freidn in of the street and not cherge her rent cos her bf was hittin her. she stays her 2 months for free then she gets the nerve to ditch me with lots of bills to pay. why. becuse she plays victim saying i forscwe her to clean when she never once washed anything. im sorry im jus venting and im drinking...im so hurt, she was my best friend for 10 years...why me?
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Old 04-20-2008, 05:57 AM   #2
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so i take my best freidn in of the street and not cherge her rent cos her bf was hittin her. she stays her 2 months for free then she gets the nerve to ditch me with lots of bills to pay. why. becuse she plays victim saying i forscwe her to clean when she never once washed anything. im sorry im jus venting and im drinking...im so hurt, she was my best friend for 10 years...why me?

It is not uncommon to have a drink when hurt, i am, so we are equal there, my man has throat cancer and gee i'm praying so am i drinking and WT, want to condemn me, i don't think so, but yet, sorry i have only had one so far, so cool, i can speak but then into the second one, i'm out of here....lol....

My Grandmother/Godmother/Soul woman taught me " You can count your friends on your fingers, acquaintences come and go, and this is fact and true....

Wanting to help someone, and therefore expecting that they appreciate it, well i've even had to cross that hurdle here many times, it is different. You have a good heart, so learn that it can be broken...

So what, you don't give because you don't want it broken? No give and never stop because one day they may listen, but do it knowing that you are not seeking anything in return... Does that make sense?

If she plays victim then she has hurt that she can not see, jump over nor accept advice.

But more importantly she is a USER one who has no concern for others, only herself.

Now you are left with the bills.

I am so sorry, shall we have a drink together, only joking...

Keep your heart but watch over it, people will use you when you have a heart. Does that, not make sense. x

I am a believer, do good, but what comes around goes around....

One day, if she never appreciates what you did, well....

What comes around goes around all you can do with a heart like yours is to, as i said, still give, but be a little more wary in the future because as i wrote earlier tonight, people will TAKE what they WANT, Male or Female because that is their make-up.

But sometimes, just on a rare occasion you can make a difference and that is worth it's weight in gold.

Always be you, never be afraid to love, just don't expect that ignorant people will give it back, and differentuate the difference so you to can learn whom you should and whom you shouldn't give to IN TIME....

Time is always an essense.

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Old 04-20-2008, 08:44 PM   #3
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Oh my goodness. I'm sorry for making a spectical of myself here last night. I don't usually drink, so I got pretty drunk last night. I am still feeling pretty bad, but i'll get over it. looking on the bright side...I was going to pay her $100 for her barely used cell phone that worth $250...now it's mine, for free...hahaha
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Oh my goodness. I'm sorry for making a spectical of myself here last night. I don't usually drink, so I got pretty drunk last night. I am still feeling pretty bad, but i'll get over it. looking on the bright side...I was going to pay her $100 for her barely used cell phone that worth $250...now it's mine, for free...hahaha
Well when someone can say hahaha, the next day, sounds to me like your a lot happier....

Enjoy the phone then....

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k you gotta let it go wats in the past needs to stay in the past ive been through so much more than that but i learned to forgive and forget
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k you gotta let it go wats in the past needs to stay in the past ive been through so much more than that but i learned to forgive and forget
What? Are we seeing the same thread here? I just said all is fine, in fact I was really drunk when I posted that first one so really I was just venting.

Oh i've been through alot sister, but this definitely is not the worst...yeah it was a deep wound, with with wounds time heals them...bah, i've already forgiven and forgotten the next day after I posted this thread...I just needed to get it off my shoulders....

But all is well now and I haven't spoken to her since my second posting on this thread
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oh one more thing, this happened to me recently, hence my posting a few weeks ago...mmmkay? This is not something that happened
"in the past" (well NOW it's in the past) but this happened a few weeks ago from a "friend" of 10 years.
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If you can say "hahahaha" after a night of drunkeness....

...you are my hero!



Sorry your friend did that to ya... but glad to see you're letting it go and moving on..... and yay on your brand new cell-phone!!!
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