Had sex for the first time, Have some questions. =)

**Junior** · 09-15-2008 04:15 PM

Call me cliche but i think if our hearts and minds "mesh" perfectly together,
no reason for our bodies to be any diffrent.

ty!

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 09-15-2008 04:25 PM

I also think that you have to remember, she waited 20 years and has only been active for 6 months, and off course, learning all the sides of her body that she never ever knew before, sometimes it hurt, sometimes it was difficult for her.

Physcologically I think more so... You mention she "hated" any form of HUMAN intimacy other than hugging or kissing and "considering what she has been through"...

Those "healings" take a lot longer, what ever it is that she has been through and why she refused to want the human touch in any form of intimacy, other than kissing and hugging ( emotional bonding only)...

This may really be the more un-derlining fact of her problems and she is obviously, learning to over come those with your support. Patience and keep being you, she trusts you and respects you, give it time.
CW