Thread: A non-virgin with a hymen

I'm a female in my early twenties, I am not a virgin but I have had penetrative sex only a handful of times. The problem is I still find sex a little bit painful!

I have looked at my hymen and there is a tear on one side of it but the other side is pretty much intact, so clearly my hymen has torn to accommodate a penis, but only on one side. I am sure it is painful because my hymen is intact on the other side, and I would really like to dilate my vagina a bit so I can actually enjoy sex.

I have a rampant rabbit vibrator which I use but this doesn't seem to tear my hymen any more than it already has been. Would it be a good idea to use something slightly bigger?