I apologize that i've already posted this thread in another topic area, and thank you WildChild for your advice. I just want to know if anyone else is having similar problems and what you do about it. I thought maybe it would help to post it in gynecology too

The problem is, I feel absolutely nothing during sex and I get so wet that my boyfriend can barely feel it anymore. I can feel it for about the first 20 seconds and then I become too wet to feel it anymore. I don't know what to do about it, but it's so beyond frustrating. We've tried every position in the book, drying ourselves off, everything! and nothing at all works. I've never been able to orgasm from sex anyway, but I atleast used to be able to feel it. I've been to the gyno and all my tests were normal so I have no idea what the problem is. We've been together for 4 years now and I love him very much, but I just never feel like having sex anymore because I don't see the point. When we first began having sex( he was my first) we used the non lubricated condoms because we had done research and learned that those were less likely to break, a few months ago we started using lubricated ones and of course, I felt nothing..so I went to the gyno and got on the depo shot, which is what im on now. We don't use anything and I can't feel a thing, aside from thrusting. Please, somebody give me some advice here before I go crazy!