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    I started experiencing this not so much painful, but definately sharp uncomfortableness it my lower abdomen during sex.It would just seem like suddenly there was something inside me that he was jabbing upon pentration, that didnt occur before but occurs very often now, & only starts after about 20 mins into it (not during quickies). I read that it may jjust be him hiting my cervix walls mostly occuring while in missionary postion. And although it does seem to happen everytime i missionary, it also happens atleast half the time doggystyle, and a few times while Im on top too, but even if it is due to deep pentration, why is it all the sudden doing this? Then the bleeding started soon after but I have no idea whether or not its related...heres the deal:
    I had just had my 2nd baby about 6 months prior to when it started feeling as if he was poking something inside of me that wasnt there before. I have had the same 1 faithful partner for the last almost 7 yrs. Nothing had changed in our sexual activities, positions, or anything and now its almost 9 months later having the same thing. Only now Ive experienced new symptoms, unaware if theyre related to previous problem or not but I started spotting alittle after sex occassionally at first. Then it progressed to having a pretty large amount of blood stained on the sheets, all over my hubbys parts, myself, & even dripping down as I would walk to bathroom immeadiately following sex. But all and all this is occuring without any actual "pain". Its just more uncomfortable but in a sharp way where I have to stop it. which might be totally unrelated to the bleeding, like I said I dont know they just starting happening one after another so...
    Im also on the Depo shot in which Ive stopped having periods (which has been always been an effect I had from the shot- no menstrual cycle at all- no spotting, cramps, nothing)soon after recieving 1st shot. Im not sure whether that may factor into the issue Im having or not but...
    I am going to see a doctor soon but have to wait another month for my insurance to kick in to do so. Im alittle concerned though because Im pretty sure Im STD free as I said Ive had only the 1 partner for long time now & was tested & cleared for everything alittle over a year ago when having my baby. And considering my last PAP & pelvic exam was only 14 months ago (I know Im 2 months overdue!) and Im sure while prego and after they screened me for any & everything right? Does anyone have any insight as to whats going on with me or if this is maybe just normal? Im hoping so because honestly Ive been very scared & nervous considering with the bleeding duringg and following sex keeps seeming to progress. No pain, tenderness (besides the sometimes usual after alittle rough or prolonged act of sex), no burning during urination, nothing, and it occurs with or without orgasm (I dont cum very easy anyways so..) in any sex lasting more than about 15-20 mins. But it seems to bleed more or atleast no less with each time and the last time I continued bleeding for almost 4 days! It was for the most part too light to wear a tampon but had to wear pantyliner due to occassional (Im sorry if it sounds gross) thick strings or small globs of brownish/dark reddish blood that if I was standind/walking I could feel comming out.Im sorry I know its gross! I figured maybe the color/consistentcy had to do with not having period in over a year? I dont know but if anyone else does please share because as you can maybe imagine it has made me feel uncomfortable in a way, even though he doesnt trip on it and is more concerned than anything anyways, Im just not wanting to have sex as much anymore due to the huge inconvience and embarassment of the resulting mess!...thanks!

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    Firstly your Cervix is probably tilted, it happens but it's not for life, it comes and goes.

    This Depo shot seems to muck women around, with their periods have you ever considered simple birth control instead? I think those shots don't allow you to be a woman, you can't have cycles. That's what I have read , but having said that:-

    What you experience from "penetrative sex" , I have experienced through masterbation on my own.. I suspect I go too deep?

    And, i am on the pill../

    I also noted, I was stressed wanting to ensure i was clear, okay but after 1 week i blead too, there must be a few factors in this.

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