i have noticed that for the last 3 months ( maybe longer ) after my husband and i have sex i have itchiness on the insides on my vagina. i have never had this problem before but the itchiness is driving me nuts. we do not use protection being i had my tubes tied 8 years ago and we dont use any lube at all so i dont know why i have this. i am worried that i might have a STD(hubby cheated on me and admitted to using condoms) i dont know if he still is seeing her but the itchiness makes me wonder ....if i am allergic to the latex in condoms or something else. it does not burn or sting when i pee and i do not have any odor or discharge.. just the itchness. i am 43, i am pre-metapausal ( dont know if that has anything to do with it) but i need some answers.

thanks