Will i be able to have children one day?

YB001 · 07-19-2009, 01:09 AM

My boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and we have never had protected sex- dumb i know- my concern is that we've never had a pregnancy scare ever. I get my period like clock work every month. Could something b wrong?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-19-2009, 01:29 AM

I would suggest both go to the Doctors and check your fertility & his sperm count.

And, at the same time, discuss with your boyfriend what would happen if you were to get pregnant if you haven't already, because you state "dumb" so I am guessing neither of you really want that at this stage and if not, check all your options of avoiding it.

Good luck.

CW

YB001 · 07-19-2009, 05:29 AM

Thanks, we have spoken bout it, i say dumb coz a baby is not in the immediate plans. If it were to happen we would b okay

I dont like going to docs, so to mentally prep myself, how is fertility checked? Thanks cw.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-19-2009, 05:45 AM

Well, i don't exactly know I asked my flatmate, she's a nurse, and it was suggested that they can work that out through blood tests and swabs.

But, we ALL hate Doctors, truly ( smile )

Forwarned is all good though is it not? Knowing information and taking it from there?

Don't be scared....

God I had dentists...

But what do we do?

CW

YB001 · 07-19-2009, 08:05 AM

Thanks for the advise! Really appreciate it!

07-19-2009, 01:09 AM	#1
YB001 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: South Africa Posts: 12	Will i be able to have children one day? My boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and we have never had protected sex- dumb i know- my concern is that we've never had a pregnancy scare ever. I get my period like clock work every month. Could something b wrong?

07-19-2009, 01:29 AM	#2
CHANDLERS WISH WH Head Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 12,650 Blog Entries: 8	I would suggest both go to the Doctors and check your fertility & his sperm count. And, at the same time, discuss with your boyfriend what would happen if you were to get pregnant if you haven't already, because you state "dumb" so I am guessing neither of you really want that at this stage and if not, check all your options of avoiding it. Good luck. CW __________________ Women are Angels And when someone breaks our wings.... We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick... We are flexible like that .... White Witch. Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

07-19-2009, 05:45 AM	#4
CHANDLERS WISH WH Head Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 12,650 Blog Entries: 8	Well, i don't exactly know I asked my flatmate, she's a nurse, and it was suggested that they can work that out through blood tests and swabs. But, we ALL hate Doctors, truly ( smile ) Forwarned is all good though is it not? Knowing information and taking it from there? Don't be scared.... God I had dentists... But what do we do? CW __________________ Women are Angels And when someone breaks our wings.... We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick... We are flexible like that .... White Witch. Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

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07-19-2009, 05:29 AM	#3
YB001 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: South Africa Posts: 12	Thanks, we have spoken bout it, i say dumb coz a baby is not in the immediate plans. If it were to happen we would b okay I dont like going to docs, so to mentally prep myself, how is fertility checked? Thanks cw.

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YB001 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: South Africa Posts: 12	Thanks for the advise! Really appreciate it!