Thread: plzz..help its urgent

so, this means i can marry anyone without having to b tense about this virgin issue?
can u tell me d details of cases or activities where hymen can b broken?
is bleeding necessary after breaking of hymen?

Yes, you don't need to worry about it. Rid your mind about that notion. I was once in the same boat that is why I was compelled to marry young, just because he kissed me already and I thought...man! I was already kissed! I am no longer a virgin. Honestly that was it.

Now, I know better. Most men won't be able to tell whether you're still avirgin or not, especially if you are small, and you know how to do some kegels.

Activities such as horseback riding, gymnastics, bicycling, rock climbing, manually scrubbing the floor with a coconut husk (I did that when I was a teen), among others would be sufficient to break one's hymen. In some cases, due to delayed and/or irregular menstruation, doctors have to examine you and/or clean you up inside - that is enough to de-virginize you. This is also another eason why my mom refused to have me checked and "cleaned" when I was in my teens and was having a delayed menstruation of 3 months (mind you, I was a virgin then so...).

Sometimes, even if your hymen is broken, there is no evident bleeding.

So, leos... don't lose sleep over it. If he loves you truly, virginity should not be an issue.