Thread: Hymen problem HELP!

Hi guys, I'm 19 this year.
I seemed to realise there's actually something wrong with my hymen
I've never gotten my ex boyfriends to look at it until recently
And my hymen hasn't been broken yet (Including fingering)
Last night I finally took a look at how the hymen was and how my hymen was
From the pictures i see on the internet
The moist area around the hymen and the urethral orifice is suppose to be uhm..
Flat.
Well. I've noticed that my hymen kinda has 2 lumps at the hymen/vaginal opening area and the urethral orifice
I'm not sure if its ON the hymen and urethral orifice or not
Which leads to my second problem
I do not see ANY hymen opening at all
not even a slight one
My boyfriend has tried to finger me many times
But every time he tries
Its hurt so badly
Even when I'm relaxed or even on drugs
I can still feel that sharp intense pain when his finger is stretching my hymen
but his finger is not even 1/5 through
The bumps on my hymen/vaginal opening and urethral orifice are painless
I have my periods so I know for sure there is an opening and it isn't painful when my period starts
Another problem is that I'm always "wet"
I have to wear a panty liner everyday if not it feels uncomfortable because it's wet
Which makes me also know for sure that there is an opening!
BUT i don't see it even when i use my finger to stretch my vagina
It's like as if my hymen has completely sealed off the vagina opening
And I really feel like in this situation
I've never been to a gynecologist nor had a pelvic exam
Help pls!