Ive been having really weird pains that seem to shoot around my bladder and groin area, when my bf and i have sex it hurts alot, like pressure , then once were done i have bad cramping in my bladder area...i really enjoy sex, but its honestly killing me..it hurts so bad, like the pain shoots around in weird spots, and lately ive been getting pain in my lower left side. I feel bad because i want to please my man but he just doesnt understand how much pain im in, so i try to get out of sex as much as i can until i figure out what is wrong with me, so ive been jerking him off alot, i honestly feel bad to do this to him, but the pain is just too much, i have even tried taking, muscle relaxers and advil and tylenol but nothing stops the pain. I went to the doctors, they did a blood test and i also went in for an ultrasound..my doctor tried telling me i may have a tube baby or something ., but this pain has been happening alot, and ive been pregnant before as i have a 5 yr old son, so i would know if im pregnant or not. im starting to wonder if maybe i have an ulcer or something, but is it possible for the pain to shoot around that area? anyone going, or have been thru this, please let me know..thanks...