Thread: did i lose my virginity or is it my period??

Originally Posted by tubi

hey im tubi im 17 years old i have a bf for two years and we use to have sex but i never bleeded and never took birth controling pills, well on 10th august i had sex with my bf and got my periods the next day, and today morning i went crazy and inserted my finger in my virgina, and when i went to the bathroom to clean i saw blood and i thought i got periods but the blood is not comming now and my pad is clean .. but im having stomach aches and im worried did i lose my virginity or is it periods? i got periods early and before time and im really worried !! im stressed also since past two weeks.

If you are saying you've had sex before, then clearly you are not a virgin, and you've had periods before, so I do not understand your question. You said you aren't using birth control pills, but are you using condoms at least or some sort of contraception? If you are not using any sort of protection, I have heard many women say they spot before their period is due and it turns out they are pregnant.

Sometimes I spot right before I get my period, and sometimes after, and I sometimes get cramps up to a week before my period even begins, but every woman is different so it may or may not be a possibility. Stress can have an effect on your period, but if yours started the 10th of last month, and now you're spotting, then it sounds like your period since it's been a month, yes? Unless you meant you've already had another cycle since then this month.

Maybe you were too rough with your fingers and nicked yourself by accident so it was bleeding?

Either way, kind of need more specific information to help you with an answer here.

Yea idk the question, but...spotting after getting pregnant is called like implantation bleeding - after the egg attaches to the uterus wall. so you might want to have a pregnancy test.

Not everyone bleeds by losing their virginity. I never did. You have had sex, you are not a virgin.