new and scared pls help :(

**loulou36** · 11-02-2010 06:58 AM

hello and thank you 4 taking the time to read my post..well im 36 years old i have 3 grown up boys,i have been exsperiancing very worrying symptons,about 4 months ago i started losing a very heavy clear watery discharge,daily,then after a few weeks the discharge changed 2 a blood tinged colour,then the discharge stopped so then came the constant spotting eva since,not 1 day has passed without this browny red couler spotting,my periods have always been regular but long, but this last month i have missed this period,also wen i have a bm blood comes out ov vagina and also after orgasm but that only happens once or twice a month,i have also been having realy sharp shooting paing in both my legs for about 6 months(dont no if thats realated)well i went 4 an internal scan everything looked fine apert from slight thickning of the womb 10.5mm,had fbc all fine thyroid all fine smear all fine,also a nurse had a look at my cervix and said everything look fine,took swobs all clear,i have never been on the pill or taken any hormones in any way,im not pregnant as i have been single for a year now,i have an appouintment with my gyno nxt month she wants 2 do a histocpy(spelling)and and endo biopcy,anyway so my question is has any1 ever exsperianced thes symptons,or could any1 shed a bit of light as 2 what might b going on with me,im very scared,and cant sleep,thank you 4 any replys in advance.......

**loulou36** · 11-02-2010 08:43 AM

please if any1 could give me and words of comfort or advice or anything i would be very greatfull,as you can probbly see im very worried,and scared that it could be cancer

**WildChild** · 11-02-2010 09:14 AM

That must be nerve wracking. I'm glad you have seen a doctor. It doesn't sound like your health care providers feel there is anything indicating an emergency type condition. A biopsy will give more info. In the meantime, why not work on a super healthy diet and exersize?

**loulou36** · 11-02-2010 10:00 AM

thank you wildchild for your kind words,i do have a very health diet and i exersize regulary,so thats y am so concerned as to what it could be,as all tests have come back clear except for the biopcy im am have done(fingers crossed its fine)hhas any1 exsperianced any of these symptons im having and hsd a diognoses i would be very greatfull if you could share them with me,thanks in advance again for any replys x

**sourpuss** · 11-02-2010 10:22 AM

I agree with WC, it doesn't seem that the doctors are worried. More tests will either reveal what's wrong, or rule out some possibilities. Could it be early signs of menopause? Just a thought, I don't even know what the pre-menopause signs are maybe someone who's gone through it could shed some light.

In the mean time, like WC said, stay healthy.

**loulou36** · 11-02-2010 03:26 PM

ty for you reply sourpuss,i to thought early menopause,but my dr doesnt seem to think that is the case he thinks im 2 young so declined to do a hoemone test,i have read alot about early menopause but my symptoms dont seem 2 mimic them,but i supose we r all diffrent,i would also like 2 hear if any1 is in early menopause could them please share their stories with me so i can compair symptoms,thank you again,,hugs.....x p.s dont no if this is relivent but i have been suffering very extream anxiaty also...xxxxx

**Katie35801** · 11-03-2010 07:13 AM

I have also had some of your symptoms and suffer from extreme anxiety. I'm too scared to go to doctor.

Was your discharge smelly?

**loulou36** · 11-03-2010 11:09 AM

hello katie35801,no my discharge has no smell at all,if yours does it sounds very much like an infection wich can easily be treated,i no it is very worriying but the sooner you go 2 your dr the quicker you will feel better,if its an sti then left untreated can cause infertillity,keep me uptated,hugs xxxx