Thread: is this normal?

i'm a virgin and i'm about to have sex for the first time so i've been researching things to check if im normal and everything and ive noticed that i dont seem to have labia minora..is this possible?

also im worried about having sex because when i check myself down there it seems very small and right at the opening (not far up inside) there's hard what feels like bone or cartilage at the top of the opening and i dont know if this is normal or if there is something wrong? im worried its going to mean my boyfriend wont be able to go inside me.

having said this i have been fingered before with no problems and in the past ive masturbated successfully without any problems so maybe its just because i havent done anything recently?

any help would be very appreciated

It is normal for it to be tight and may hurt a bit, but you sound normal.