I am not really sure how to tell if it is broken. I've looked, but I can't seem to get a good enough look, and I really don't know. Anyway, I went for a pap, and the doctor couldn't even get the small itty bitty teenage speculum in (and I am not a teenager) without causing a lot of pain. After the appointment, I decided to see if I could stretch it myself. So now I am wondering, if I can fit a one inch diametre vibrator more than 4 inches into my vagina with little to no pain does that mean the hymen is broken now and I could probably complete the pap with less pain next time?