Ello' I am in need of some advice....

Cut a long story short, i have recently come out of a long term relationship..... and i have started dating this gorgeous man, who is quite "large"! Now i am not the biggest of girls down there, small to average, now i am worried as both times which we have had sex, i have bled!! Now, i have never bled before, not even with my long term partner... and he was normal size.

I wouldn't say this man is overly huge, however bigger than i'm used too! Girls, is this normal?

Thank goodness this new guy is so supportive and he was so relaxed about it! So, this didn't stop us.. hee hee

It doesn't hurt, but obviously i am concerned and would like it to stop.... will this go over time?

Any help girls is much appreciated! xxxx

i'm old enough and have had sex enough, with different sized men, i might add, but have never bled during or after intercourse. if i were you, i'd pay attention to this and if it's extreme, i'd be asking my gyn about it, asap. you could be just too small for your man, who knows?, But i do know it's never happened to me, or that i've heard of to any of my old friends.. sory i couldn't help more...

I did have a boyfriend who was exceptionally large, also, back in my heyday, and I never bled.

Maybe your hymen was never completely torn? I'd say give it one more go but if it happens again, see a gyno just to make sure everything is okay.

Before I say anything, if the bleeding is leaving only pink tinges on your toilet paper or undies, I wouldn't worry too much about it, anything heavier than that, I would ask your OB/GYN. Usually, during intercourse the vaginal walls are engorged so that the blood vessels surrounding that skin are very close to the surface, close enough in fact to break if something large enough passes through them. Being that I have a small birth canal as well, it is not uncommon for me to bleed after intercourse at times. Sometimes when sex is too rough, or if you are small like you an I, having intercourse with a larger than normal man can cause you to bleed. Dont worry too much unless you are bleeding heavily. Next time you visit your doctor, mention it just to be sure.