It hurts to have sex
okay, so my b/f has a fairly wide penis, and we used to do it at least 2ce every day. now i think i completely lost my libido. it started off feeling if as tho i had rug burn everytime we did it, but then once i was wet, it would feel fine. then the outside started hurting, and now everything hurts, and when hes insde me, my vagina actually feels swollen and doesnt feel good in the least bit. so now we never do it and it used to be a big part of our lives...its really upsetting actually! i dont know what it is or what to do. like it even hurts for his finger to touch it, ahhhh help me plz! its been more than a freakin year!!!
Your vagina should only be sore for a max of 24 hours after having sex. If the pain never goes away, you should see a gynecologist to make sure there is not something wrong. If the pain is going away shortly after and is only from the friction of the sex, then I suggest using some good lubrication like KY Jelly or something. If you start out dry, end dry, or are dry at any point you will end up sore afterwards. It is important to have lube. If it starts to get dry during, just have the bottle right there and add some more as you go. Also, the more you have sex with him, the more your vagina will loosen up. So if you have less and less sex, the vagina tends to tighten back up. Thus, causing more friction.
Are you on birth control? That can cause a serious decrease in lubrication.
Another thing to consider is if you are using condoms. You may be allergic to the condom or the gel on the condom.
~Jessica
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