i have never tried it, but I want to... If you are afraid to wax it, you can also try using safe bleach to bleach your hairs down there... has anyone tried this?

Have you try to use Vaniqa? Vaniqa is specifically formulated for the lessening of facial hair amongst women. Vaniqa should not be mistaken as a hair removal method. Vaniqa merely harmonises with your existing hair removal method by lessening the rate of hair growth. Vaniqa performs inside the hair follicle, where the actual problem commences. When Vaniqa is rubbed in, it reaches beneath the shell of the hair follicle to retard the growth inside the hair follicle itself. You can encounter visible positive results within a span of 4-6 weeks of usage.

I had the same problem. Laser hair removal is amazing for that and there are places that will do any area on your body so don't feel embarrassed, they see it all the time. As you can see from this forum you're not the only one who has this problem and there are a ton of people who have it taken care of. I say go for it, it's a great investment and makes you feel so much better about yourself. Hope that helps =)

Shaving is not preferred method..The only best way to go with is Laser Hair Removal..let me explain you how effectively this treatment works on you...

-Laser hair removal is considered extremely safe if performed properly by a qualified specialist.

-Laser hair removal can be virtually painless when compared with waxing and electrolysis. (body hair removal treatments)

-There are many methods to remove unwanted hair. None are permanent but Laser Hair Removal.

-It is a simple and noninvasive technique and it is a permanent solution to get rid of unwanted hair.

-Laser hair removal is an effective method that can bring amazing results..

Regards

i've been shaving my butt since i was 13, im now 22 and i get pimples all the time, like 25% of my butt is full of the marks that i get from pimples and i dont even pop them. i dont have the money for laser and im just to emberassed to get a brazilian, i go to a professional waxer for other parts of my body and she's great but i just dont feel comfortable bearing all especially after having my son and getting loads of stretchmarks. so i just shave and moisturise. and i know what you mean about being with a guy, the light has to be turned off, always so that he doesnt see my butt. im really fed up about it

I don't understand what the big deal is about butt hair. Your butt is an extension of your leg, it's natural to have some butt hair, methinks. I'm not agile enough to check, but the bottom part of my cheek closest to my leg doesn't feel very smooth, so I'm assuming there are some prickly butt hairs hanging out there.
I guess I'm lucky-my boyfriend's butt is about as hairy as his head, so he can't comment!

Hey, I can relate! J Sisters Salon in NYC is THE BEST for waxing! They totally make you feel at ease. Having said that, a full Brazilian bikini wax (butt, vulva, bikini area) hurts!! But they do a good job compared to other places I've heard.

But you can just have your butt waxed, which in my opinion does not hurt as much compared to having the front waxed (in other words, a bikini wax that doesn't leave a landing strip - OUCH!). Here is their info:

J Sisters
35 West 57th Street 3RD Floor
New York Ny 10019
212-750-2485 OR 212-750-0170
J Sisters