Saralaise

I have a fine layer of hair across my butt as well, and like everyone else, I was (and still sort of am) freaked out about it. I haven't shaved it, simply because its not super hairy and I don't want to have to constantly keep re-shaving it and fear that it will keep coming in thicker and thicker. For those of you who mentioned it, does waxing your butt really hurt?

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Sonora

Waxing is probably the better way to go but I can say its painful.

JaMor

I have the same problem. I've never shaved but used hair removal creams but unfortunately they say it is not supposed to be used on those areas. I seriously thinking bout the laser treatment though.

emberly

i have butt hair. it sucks.i dont feel sexy wearing a thong..i had my friend cut my butt hair but i know she wont do that forever! how old do you have to be to get a wax? do u wax butt hair?

woman01

To all the hairy girls out there, as many of you said, it is nice to know you are not the only one.
I speak to you from the 30+ group . I have always had a hairy butt. And as many of you said shaving does not give a long term solution, neither does hair removal cream. I had laser treatment and unfortunately it did not help me, because of the colour of my hair ( a risk I was whiling to take). Just to explain, usually the best results for laser treatment would be if you have light skin and dark hair. If you have dark skin it is not ideal because of the pigmentation of the skin. So be sure you research before committing to this expensive treatment.
While you are having the treatment you have to be cautious and not expose the area to the sun, not that it is a problem here... For me, waxing has always been the best solution. it works, you have a red patch for a day or two, then no hair for a couple of weeks, but you have to wait for it to grow in order to have it waxed again, if the hair is very short it can’t be waxed. So you end up having a week to ten days in which you have to let it grow. On the bright side, as the years pass, if you keep on waxing the hair does get thinner and you end up having less of it.
Good Luck to all of you who share this very unpleasant problem.
P.S. I have been too many different cosmeticians, this is a problem shared by many, so the women who wax have seen it all, it is an everyday thing, nothing surprises them, and more then that they understand how uncomfortable you are about it, and always make you feel like they want to help you. So don’t be embarrassed it is natural to have hair, some cultural embrace it, some don’t...

neptune

Ok so as a guy (I'm on this site because I have a separate question about removing female hair in certain places) I would not care if I saw a girl who had a little (or a lot of) hair. We're all mammals and we grow hair, if you're boyfriend won't like you because he thinks that you're otherwise hot but he can't get over your hair then he's a loser and not worth it.

Anyway like the above reply eluded to waxing is your best bet, most salons will do it for you, and they don't care because that's their job and they've seen it all and they've seen worse, so don't be embarrassed about doing it.

Also, I know that laser hair removal is effective (like the above post said, it is optimal if you have light skin and dark hair), and don't be embarrassed to go there either. Just ask them ahead of time if they offer the service (some don't), and if they do chances are they've seen it all and they've seen worse.

Bottom line is don't spend time worrying about this, there are more important things to worry about, guys who think that the total amount of hair on a woman below her neck should be zero are incredibly superficial so don't waste time on them. Guys who realize that women are mammals too and happen to grow hair in places and can get over it are the way to go.

Please see my question in another thread regarding how to trim hair, I'm curious to know what works.

knwalton

i would absolutely love to not to have to worry about it with my husband and just be wild and spontaneous in bed, he definitely deserves it. but i'm dealing with a hairy butt too. like a lot of you ( btw i thought i was totally alone here so i feel less alone now so thanks guys), i have hair just about everywhere, its because when i was younger i shaved everywhere i saw hair,didn't have much of a mom around to tell me that if i did it it would all grow back 10 times thicker! now I'm too embarrassed to wear just underwear around my husband, and wont do certain...positions, and i've got a paranoid feeling about having it removed by someone else. like its the worst they've seen lol.

siennagrace

hi im 15 and am sooo self concious. so i have a few questions.

1. are you supposed to have alittle hair on your butt because isnt it true you have hair all over your body? also is it supposed to be alittle darker as it grows in between the two cheeks?

2. any advice onto how to get reallly good abs? im trying to get the guy i like to like me as more than a friend but he was a girlfriend so im trying to work on my body.

3. i have really curly hair. i mean its not like tons of tight curls but pretty curly and i dont know what product to use so its now frizzy but not crunchy with hair product and hair spray. any suggestions?

sienna

nottheonlyone

That has been my biggest problem...I am a REALLY hairy girl, and I have hair all over my butt, but its because around age 12 I started shaving it, not knowing it was going to grow back lol. But now, since I'm a lot older my relationship with my boyfriend are becoming pretty serious lol, and I'm SO embarrassed to be naked with him...hence I dont want him to see my butt hair lol. I don't want to shave it though, because its going to grow back even thicker....eww. I'm terrified of getting anything waxed....it looks so painful...especially down in my vagina area...OUCH. Any suggestions? I guess I could just turn the lights out?? lol thanks btw! You guys are awesome! I thought I was the only one that had this problem...does anyone have lower back hair?? hahaha lmao. I do! & its gross...I'm scared to wear a bikini even though it was no big deal last time i wore one...I'm just REALLY REALLY insecure about my body.

nottheonlyone

Wait when you say back hair Lilly, do you mean lower back hair, cuz thats what I have..,but for some reason the rest of my back is pretty much hairless..but then there is all this hair on my lower back lol.