(I'm sorry if this is in the wrong section, I'm new to this. feel free to move thread!) Now I know theres alot of threads about this. And I also know I'm much younger than most people on here. I'd rather not say how old. I've been lurking here for a while, and I'm really relieved that I'm not alone. Anyway, the problem is I have really thick, dark hairs in embarrasing places and it's making me really insecure. I mostly wear clothing that covers alot of my skin. I already get picked on for my dark arm hairs -- I don't even know what it's gonna be like if people see my stomach & back hairs. I even asked my mum if she could ask the doctor to write letters to my P.E teacher to get me out of P.E. I've been faking back- aches, etc.
Especially when it involves alot of jumping/whatever.
Anyway, it's been really depressing for me to see everyone in my class have boyfriends and stuff. I've never had one, because I'm just too insecure about my hairs. I've been growing dark, thick hairs since I was really young. (9 or so)
Later I started getting more hair in more places, and now I'm even starting to get facial hair -- and I can't cover my face. I'm also really scared I might get PCOS later on. This is to me because I'm an outgoing person and I love hanging out with people. I just always wear really long sweaters so noone can see my back / belly. I know alot of people post stuff like this, but I can't wax because I'm still really young. My mum wont allow that, let alone laser treatment. My mum says it's ''natural''. She's really old fashioned, so I wont even get into that. Talking to my mum just wont help. I know there aren't any more solutions other than waxing,shaving,etc. But I'm too scared to shave because I think it will grow back thicker. And as for boyfriends/friends accepting me for who I am just wont work. I'll always feel unattractive and embarrased about this -- always. I'd give up everything I have just to be hairless and smooth like the girls at my school.
I know I'm just whining now, but I just felt like putting it out there. It's really bringing me down. I think it would help for me to read what you guys (girls,lol.) have to say. Like things I definitely shouldn't do. (shave,etc.)
And how to get through this. How you survived.
Please don't be rude, it took me long enough to actually so much as register. I'm really ashamed. Lol, don't be surprised if I edited my post and deleted everything I've never been this open.
I'm sorry for the long post! I'm not always like this, promise.![]()




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I have it on my back, my stomach, my butt, my arms (ew) and I am very embarrassed of it! I have the same issues at school and it makes me mad to even look at all the girls in the locker room who are hair free.. I just hate it! I've been researching all this and I had never found a person with the same issue, but I guess it's not that bad now. What I hate most of all is that I was stupid enough to shave the hair on my stomach and now it's just REALLY disgusting. I hate ittttttt!!! My mom is just like yours and won't let me wax it. I told her I wanted to get that plucking machine thing because I really REALLY want to get rid of it and she didn't let me because she said I won't take the pain. help!! 


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