I need advice... please help me!

**babydontforget** · 10-15-2010 11:21 AM

Hi there! so, I'm 15 and I'm not sexually active and never have been. But, I shave down the lower area because I don't like having hair there. But, unfortunately, I have a hairy butt crack. and as embarrassing as it is, I don't know how to get rid of it. Like, if it's okay to shave it too. and I can't get wax or laser because my parents would freak and I'm to embarrassed to tell my mom. And I keep thinking about when I get married and I'll be to embarrassed to be with my husband and won't know what to do! It's just really starting to bother me. I've always developed faster then girls my age. People say I look 18-19 and I'm 15. But please help me out! I really need some advice! thanks!

**caterpillar79** · 10-15-2010 12:42 PM

How thick is the covering down there? You could shave it if you could reach it and comfy of not nicking yourself. I don't think husbands would be concerned about it - at least mine is not.

**WildChild** · 10-16-2010 10:33 AM

Originally Posted by wo-wo-man

Everybody has a hairy butt crack; if they say they don't they are either lying or they've never checked. .

Not true.
I don't. Many other prople don't either

**Little.Chuck** · 10-16-2010 11:31 AM

I also do not have a hairy backside.

**Thomas Hepburn** · 10-17-2010 02:35 AM

Firstly don't worry about it. Guys like different hair volumes on a girl, and if you find someone special, he won't drop you because you have hair somewhere. If it really bothers you then, when you are old enough - 16??, have it waxed/lasered out without telling your parents. I understand this can be almost permanent.
Wouldn't your mother understand and be supportive of this anyway??

**babydontforget** · 10-22-2010 10:33 AM

It's not TOO hairy... but it is noticeable. I tried to shave a little once and it ended up being very itchy and it was so annoying! Do you think if I continue I will get used to it and it will stop itching??

**kateisgreat23455** · 10-25-2010 07:17 PM

Some pubic hair is down there no matter how perfect all the people commenting this think they are. Girl you are 15 so any hair is some hair and is going to freak you out. I am 18 and have a younger sister who is 16. We live in a beach town so ZERO BODY HAIR is ideal for us. I have been getting waxed (behind my mothers back have you) since I was around 15. I just hated the major razorbumps I'd get down there because for some reason my skin is super sensitive no matter how many magical creams or razors I try. Go to a nail salon and spend a lil bit of money (preferably not a nail salon your mom goes to) and go and get it waxed. its cheap and at first you think OMG THIS IS GOING TO BE SO AWKWARD. but think of it like the gynocologist (cant seem to spell that). they have seen 1,001 vaginas and waxed them all. don't be embarassed. and their hair stays away for far longer! just go and get your nails done while you are there and mommy dearest will have no idea