I don't know what your Dad did. But, he was "flirting" and he believed that he wasn't "cheating" and then he cried. Sure, he tried to cover up, with but, but, but, blame, blame, blame, he is a man.Originally Posted by shoneejay
He is a great communicator and you do love him, you are not revengeful like you were before you married him.
Something worth working on is worth walking on, you can truly talk to him and visa versa... Leave the dead book and work on being more than just best friends.
He obviously loves you, and needed to flirt, you need to ask why. We get so complacent in a marriage/relationship, yes there are cheaters that don't give a shirt about the S/0 but there are those that do, but a little something is missing and so they see no harm in accepting a little flirting.
You two need a bit of romance in your life. He knows full well you will NOT put up with infidelity,you WILL walk, so you have your ground rules and remember...
WOMEN are usually, the batting of the eyelids, wear a nice skirt, seek attention, can i get him attracted to me, mostly as a game, sometimes for what they are missing in their life and they don't give a damd whom they hurt in the process.
I would say this Woman have him a few things to think about and played the game.
Work on your marriage i have a feeling it is worth it and can be jumped over.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Kim,
ahhh, 4 posts ( I merged them all) ... I sensed your anger as you copied, pasted , sent, wrote 3 words, sent, wrote again oops lost it sent, and then wrote a couple more words sent.
This is wrong.
Yes, he pities her, but she is not his responsibility and you are his wife and you and him need every cent you have for you...
She has another man, pregnant, and about to be sued, he has no right to be giving her anything, she has someone in her life, he has someone...
She is a "taker" no need to meet you at all, you are not her friend, he is " take" forget that your his wife.
She is a "taker" accepting his money, yet she has someone in her life.
Forget what happened when she was young we all have had problems in our life for goodness sake.
Tell your husband that you are his wife, those dollars he spends on her can be spent on you both having dinner somewhere nice, if he wants to save the world, fine, sponsor a child - an orphan in another country and help them eat.
Ask him, "what" has she given you? "what" has she offered you?
She is a taker and not a true friend... Friends are visa/versa 50/50 and meet the other persons wife/ husband because it is after all only a friendship. Get a grip and understand your being used ( husband).
And, frankly, don't accept it any more either, economy is tight, paying mortgages is hard. This is your "joint" life, she is not his grown up daughter, sister, cousin....
I don't know what else to say, I would not put up with it at all, i would not accept my money going out the door to someone who is a user and someone I don't know who can get it elsewhere ie) her new man and probably is being supported by him as well, and maybe another guy who she texts all the time... good scam i think.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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