Thread: What Would You Do??

Alright regulars here is another question for you. My parents were upset when I told them about what was going on (upset that I was going through it). They want us to do marriage counceling so that we can atleast say we tried everything. (I honestly think that they want us to do marriage counceling so when the push back from the rest of the family comes they can say 'hey..she tried' instead of 'hey they were married 3 months and then that was it') I really have no desire to do it, but I want to give my parents that piece of mind in knowing that I tried..that we tried I guess. So here is my thought...I dont want counceling to work through the marriage because..I am so much happier being on my own and living for myself. I can't imagine going back into the relationship, I know I made the right choice.(and knowing that is the most amazing feeling ever. It might be better than love) In order to satisfy all of those involved...do you think it would be okay if I told him I wanted a divorce, however..I want us to get through it as a team and really understand each other at the end of it..and I think that we should do some counceling together while the divorce is going through? Would that work? What are your thoughts?