Thread: Do you think porn is good or bad?

Maybe the two of you should do some exploring, there is a growing market of erotica aimed toward the female market that you may both find arousing without being so offensive to your sensibitities. Or make him your own 'catalog'?

It is interesting that you are ok with a catolog or maybe a mag? While a lot of porn is pretty raw in it's photography - they are focused on the action and body parts rather than looking pretty, the posed photography is another story. Playboy, for example, will take tens of thousands of shots to get the handfull that appear in the mag. Fashion shoots are much the same. I once worked for a fashion designer and on a shoot just for prototype shots for the company that contracted us, with all the special lighting, make up and focus on the garment (ski wear - no swim suits) hundreds of shots were taken just to get 30 or 40 that were sent in with sample garments.

Personally unless he's into something really over the top (like kids) I don't get it. Moderation is the key in all things. So long as this isn't obsessive, I'd be more concerned if he wasn't interested. Believe me there are men who have no desire to look at porn or at other women - they are either gay or hormone deficient, if they are truly not interested in (or at least somewhat aroused by) other women they aren't going to be very interested in you either. A woman who knows her man and her body can always draw his attention to her to fill his desires but you can't arouse a man who got's no juice. Let him look, let him fantasize, let him know where he can get the real thing.