Thread: Dreaming of cheating

I can tell you from my own experience that it's pretty common.

You know that you are committing and you understand the word commitment and therefore you don't believe in "cheating" on him, or your marriage or else you wouldn't go down the path of chosing this to be your long term partner for life.

But, you have to ask yourself if you are actually ready.

It is easy to say " but I love him soooo much" but you also loved the freedom that you had / have now... And, options if things went hay wire you can simply walk at the moment, harder when married.

Your giving your whole "body and soul" to one person for ever.

And, I always think that there is a fear associated with " those types of dreams" such as "Am i really doing the right thing I love him.....

Loving someone and being so in love with someone that you couldn't fathom ever ever being with anyone else, losing them would be devistating, you love everything about them, you get on so well, there is really nothing you don't like, you are best friends as well and laugh alot...... Is in love.

I think that you can still dream of " saying goodbye" to your old life or the one you may have had, because you are engaged and still be in love.

Merely I am stating ensure that you actually are.

CW