Thread: Counseling tonight - Regarding Acceping Female Friends

Thanks in advance for any prior advice and advice today.

Tonight is it. It's almost a make or break things. B (Brandon) and I can't see eye to eye on these issues so we are going to get advice, new tools to deal with it and/or help.

He is a great man that I do not want to loose over my insecurities. My insecurities are strong and that majorly plays into this. Thursday he found out that I deleted friends from his facebook account, that didn't go over well since it is intruding his privacy. He knew that I knew his password and didn't mind but he was upset that I went in his account and deleted whoever I wanted to delete. So, new issue. Besides that we put this issue to the side and enjoyed each other this weekend, we have a great relationship besides this issue.

Anyway, I want to take full advantage of this session this evening.

WHAT I REALLY WANT ADVICE ON:

I trust him and believe that he is not sleeping with these women (read "Accepting His Female Friends) I also do not like some of his ways of communicating with them. Because he is a great man and treats me and the kids great, hard worker and we have a fabulous time together, we work as a family well together, we figure out money (even in broke times) together. At this point I am ready to throw up my flag. I want to stop getting so upset about it or upset at all. I am willing to do this for the sake of a wonderful relationship. I worry that I can't because when the issues do come up if those feelings come to me, I can't just ignore them (I can try). But I will know they are there and he will too, cause he knows me well enough. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME SURRENDERING?
IF I DO, HOW DO I DO IT WITHOUT COMING OFF WEAK? IF I SURRENDER ANY SUGGESTIONS ON DEALING WITH IT WHEN THE ISSUE COMES UP?

Thanks