Thread: He sure has guts to call me and ask to use me again.

I was so upset after that call and it played with my mind and my feelings so much that I feel like I went back to square A. He is not making any money with his sculptures and the only reason he wants that information is because he needs money as he is planning to get an art studio with this girl. Something he was dreaming about. His business I was there to help him with it. I have no interest in it since that is one of the reasons he says he had to let me go because he no longer wanted to drag me up to his dreams of being a great sculpturist. His business were very stressfull times because he was not making money out of it. But yeah he still calls me as if I was still his wife asking for information and I always remind him that he is not with me anymore therefore he does not need my help anymore.

send him all of his passwords, account names, etc. tell him you are 100% done and then change your phone #.

i am lost on one thing. you mention contact information.
is it contact informationdealing with work or pleasure like myspace passwords etc.
if work, give them to him like NO1 said and then tell him to leave you alone.
if pleasure like myspace and stupid stuff, dont bother. he is a man and should have it/know it.
other than that, NO1 says it best.

First call that night he asked for contact information of his clients as I had compiled them together. However, he said many times that I did not help him and did not support him. then why is he asking for something that I really worked hard to get and to organize togehter for him. He called me all upset and yelling that it was his information so I told him that he should ask his mother to come to get it as I did not want to deal with him as he was disrespecting me and I told him that the least he could do is respect me after all the hurt he has caused me.

Second call that night, He called me with a different tone of voice to apologize and told me he was just stressed out. I told him that sorry really had no more meaning coming from him and that he should not take out his stress out on me as I have nothing to do with his stress.

Third call that night he called me to ask me for his myspace account password. As he did not remember it.

See I created his website for his work, I created hs myspace, posted his events on his myspace, and sent emails to all of his clients, friends, and contacts about his art shows and I kept all his contact information and his events organized so that all he had to do is worry about creating his sculptures. I reminded him of events, I would email his clients, and art galleries and arrange the price lists and any information that gallery needed from him. I also helped him with his presentations, note writings, and his artist statements. I did everything he wanted me to do as he said that this was for our future. Funny but he no longer sees a future with me. I did so much for him that I rarely had any time for myself. He complained about the house being messy some times about me not taking care of the dogs but where was he to help me out. he wanted 100% of me but gave me only 20%. He even used my car. He did not have his own car to go around to work. I guess he was like a kid to me rather than husband to me, and yet he complained that I could not have his child but yet he never supported me and never was by myside when going to the fertility doctor. he left everything and kept with his artwork, so this girl comes around that offers to help him with his artwork and so he gets all excited but yet she does not know how hard I worked to help him and he does not see all the things that I did do for him He could only see what i did not do.