Thread: flirt

I assume you are are married, I know in my own experience I flirted with my wife many times the way I flirted with her when I was dating.

Some of that was naturally the things that bro't us together and it can go a long ways to keep you together.

A little tease here and there, a little touch, some words that imply in a subtle way you want him in the sack or that you just want him next to you.

Could be something that you wear that you know will turn him on, something a little revealing

Intense eye contact and being conscious of the way you look. Whispering something in his ear.
Compliments go a long way, a flip or twirl of your hair with that lustful look!

I find it difficult to flirt with my wife. To me the essence of flirting is letting the other person believe that you find them attractive, but without ever making it absolutely clear. I enjoy flirting - making some feel desired (and feeling desirable in return when they flirt back). But no more - to me flirting is very different from seduction. In flirting giving someone the nice feeling that they are wanted is the goal. In seduction, sex is the goal.

The problem here is that by my definition I can't flirt with my wife. She knows I desire her - I tell her so in many ways every day. I hug and kiss here, tell here I love her, send flowers, leave love-notes. All these are fine things, but to me they are not flirting.

Thats good rcoreyus... I just looked up Flirting to see what might be the worlds defin:
and I come up with this = "Flirting is, at its most basic, a way to meet potential mates and see if they are compatible. In some situations, such as at a dance or or a party flirting is the only way to open a door to a romantic relationship with someone you don't know and might not otherwise ever see again."

So I would have to reverse my defin also in this sense becasue likewise she already use to know, for me that is, that I desired her, therefore it was acts of kindness or seduction