Thread: I saw him again

sounds like he is having a real pity party at your expense. he got what he thought he wanted and if he doesnt like it - well tough. also sometimes men say things you want to hear, he lied to you before and probably will again. i hope he is not keeping you in reserve. Take care!

No he is not keeping me in reserve, today he came to pick up the rest of his stuff. He told me that he needed to detach from our relationship as I did, He seemed upset when he thought that I was ripping our pictures. I told him I wasn't but he started ripping that of his father he said he was the cause of his anger. He told me that he felt alone and when he was with me he felt alone and he is meant to be alone. He said that we had been in trouble six months ago and if I did not see it then I was blind. I told him if he wanted to think that to make him self feel better then go ahead. he told me he loved me but he had made decisions and he needs to move on. I asked him what decisions he said I left you don't you understand I left this house, I am now packing how can we turn back. He said he needed some time alone and said that he had told me he wanted to leave to mexico a while ago to leave everything behind, his school, his work, and that girl. He told me 10 years ago I found a letter that you wrote to me about how our relationship wasnt working. How many times we have to go through this I told him relationships have its ups and downs no relationship is perfect. He said let me go, just let me go. So i let him go. he said he needed to detach from me.

so basically its his fathers fault, your fault and even this girl's fault. he could grow some balls, he might find them useful! i hope you are taking care of yourself!

Yes I am really trying to take care of myself. Right now though its hard as I am looking for a place for me to live. Staying here, in this house has become financially stressful and has too many memories that won't allow me to move on. So in a way i am struggling but I hope to make it on top. He just continues to feed me with lies and he does not want to admit the real cause. He does not see that without me, he would have never had the time to create all of his sculptures that he has, he would not have money to survive, he would not have the support and encouragement that he had to begin to create. He does not see it. I think that without me he would have still be working in menial jobs because no one not even his own family would have ever been there the way i was there for him. He was not able to count on anyone but me. I comforted him, I encouraged him, and I supported him in so many ways but he does not see this.