Thread: How can some women be so cruel?

I don't get it either. If a woman would never want it to happen to her, then why can't she stop herself from hurting the wife/girlfriend? I know it all boils down to morals, I know the woman I'm dealing with just doesn't have any. She must be so naive as she's eating up all my husband's lies. When I confronted the "woman"...and asked her..."do you know what you're getting yourself into?"...she responds to me...." That's my choice then.". Naive is what she is. But question for everybody.....should we really be mad at these women? When they're not the ones married to us - the men were?"

Yep, men have mistreated women a lot throughout history, and it is funny how women turn on each other like angry wolves rather than clubbing together. There is a reason why many women find it hard to be friends with other women, the constant jealousy, influence and control issues that plague even simple friendships.

A women hates another woman who is slimmer, has bigger breasts, is orgasmic, has longer hair - whatever. And the slimmer larger breasted orgasmic lady feeds off the jealousy of the other to boost her ego. Women want what other women have, and they like a challenge. If a girl you know has a guy you like, not only would it be nice to be with him themselves, they also get the ego trip of having beaten the other woman.

I think there was a service in America where you could hire a girlfriend for an event, for the purpose of provoking other (real) females interest. Which I find amusing.

Women who are friends with people slightly uglier than they are, so that when a guy approaches the group they're the one they go for, rubbing it in the faces of the others. Women blame mens advertising campaigns for the insecurity etc. they feel, when most of it is just other women trying to feed off each others weaknesses to make themselves better, leading to a handful of spoilt princesses and a lot of women who have had their self esteem crushed by them.

This constant one-upmanship does the gender no favours on the whole.

As for an older guy attaching significance to his own life and interests instead of utterly devoting himself to the needs of others being a loser? That's rubbish. How could you even respect someone who doesn't respect themselves enough to do what they want to do. You can't expect to be the only thing in someones life - you should be happy to even make up a third of it.

I think for some girls its a game. It is like the ultimate ego boost for them, to be able to take a committed man and make them desire her, break their vows for her. For many the game is over once the damage is done and it is so very sad. Unfortunately many men are weak, and honestly... pretty stupid to fall for this. A lot of men will say they have never been hit on as much until they got married.

Maybe its that they notice it more, but likely its for the reasons above, someone women just find more of a thrill going after the "taken", it is more of a challenge (although its a lot of time dissapointingly way less of a challenge than it should be).

I've had friends that weren't attracted to a guy until he got into a relationship with someone else, became married etc. All of a sudden he is so much more 'appealing' now that he is off the market.