Thread: a deployment and my marriage

I just want to thank all you ladies willing to help me. Me and my husband's relationship has been rocky from the start. It's a roller coaster ride. We have over come problems with our ex's, acqusations of cheating and the world telling us we wont make it . When i say we i ment him. I have yet fully over come the whole situation we had with his ex. He hasnt talked to her from what I know of since we had to change our numbers ( Yes, thats how bad it got we had to change our numbers). He is in a diffrent state and three time zones away for deployment training. He will not be returning home until september because he goes straight over from his training location. Apart of me is so scared he will not be faithful and will find another over there. I am in the military as well and you hear unpleasant stories on how deployments kill a marriage because of unfaithfulness. I am currently six months pregnate and am hoping that the start of our family will be an encouragement for him to remain faithful. I keep having dreams night after night with him and the same girl having thier affairs. I dont want to bring any of my concerns to his attention because he has enough to worry about and I do not want to add one more problem for him to deal with. I know I can and will remain faithful because with my last engagement he cheated on me and had a child with his "mistress" and it killed me so much. I believe no one should go through that pain therefore I will not put anyone through it. I do love him with all my heart, and i dont want this to eat away at me for the next 7 months.