imported_x2145569

I have been with my son father for 10yrs, and we have a email address we both share. We received a email from (My Space) i went to the site and entered our email and a password that i had of his before from a previous email address which he does not know i have. Come to see their are no pics of him and only has two or three friends but his profile states he is single. That does hurt that he is not acknowledging me. the friends on his site are work friends a man and a lady, the lady i have seen her from a picture that he had and seemed Innocent, but we have moved away from that city and relocated because of his cheating on me with one of his coworkers and i needed to make a move away from all that. It has been going fine till i saw this should i be worried? should i think that he is making them think we are not together. He is not the type to confront without him having some excuse. I have not had any reason to believe that he is cheating on me. i have forgiving him for the past, I'm just afraid. Is this normal for some men to have to go browse at times?

imported_Nygirl5885

the only thing that i can advise you is to not tell him that you know this information and from time to time keep checking it. but once you find something concrete then confront him with the evidence. some men are not able to be with only one woman ... if you know that he is really cheating you need to think to yourself how many times am i willing to feel this way.

Good luck!

imported_kaylar

There is absolutely no reason to ever bring your life
to a crashing halt to walk behind him to see if he's
cheating, if he's doing this...if he's doing that...as
if you have no life.

I joined myspace, i didn't tell the truth about my
age, my relationships, anything.

Why?

I joined to make networking easier...and those who
know me know the nick I'm using, everyone else can
run down my avatar...(puppy called Askance)

Hence what you found on myspace is neither here nor
there...

the fact that you caught him once...well...that's the
way it is, isn't it? Once a ****, always a ****.

I have yet to meet a woman who has forgiven her
husband for adultery.

I can list dozens who have remained with the man,
kept the facade of marriage going...but spent a
little time alone with the wife and mention hubby,
and it's between X rating and war games.

Some women consider that they have a 'blank cheque',
since he cheated, she sees no reason to rush home
or turn down that business trip, or buy the food he
likes, or do anything to please him.

In fact, there was an article called; "The Liberation
of Adultery".

The fact is, you have a life. Live your life.
If you are not a private detective, spending your
life 'investigating' him is kind of pointless.

Either end the marriage, or reconstitute it in such
a form that you take care of yourself, and cease
to make him the centre of your life.